Obsessed with scene girls

I still get rock hard to the sight of a good looking scene girl(not trying to sound pervy). Not emo, but scene. They are so damn hot and always have a horrible boyfriend. The guy is usually trash, which doesn't make sense to me. I finally quit smoking after 5 years, got clean from the hard shit, kept drinking though, and cleaned my self image up to get better ladies, buuuut all of the good looking girls still like the unhealthy guys that have an awful job and cheap apartment. I actually have an amzing job that nobody could get without 12+ years of college, a beautiful apartment, a nice truck, good friends, and I'm a good person at heart. I don't know, maybe I need to wait another year or two, again, and continue to have sex with my friends with benefits :p