Nudes from my girlfriend dont make me horny

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My girlfriend and I are long distance and every now and then, she sends me a nude pic. Whenever she does this, I find that I not only don't get aroused by them, but I actually have trouble "getting busy" later in the day. It's not that I'm not attracted to her because I am. It's just that she's so beautiful to me and I feel guilty about tainting her beauty or "rubbing the one eyed snake" to a pic/video of someone else.

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  • derpyderp
    9 years ago

    That's a good sign.
    You obviously care for her but eventually you'll have to realise that you can still have sexual thoughts about her without it being disrespectful.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I do have sexual desires toward her. But I still feel guilty about jerking it to pictures of her which she sent me for that purpose

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      • (s)aint
        9 years ago

        Think of it like this: She would not have sent them if she didn't fully consent to it. I think you need to try and get rid of this feeling because it's totally uncalled for.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          what do you mean "uncalled for"?

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      • derpyderp
        9 years ago

        Not saying you don't. But you obviously consider those desires to be disrespectful towards her, to some degree at least.

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    Awh how long have you been together, that's sweet.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      less than a year

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      • Fall_leaves
        9 years ago

        Have you objectified other women that you've been intimate with in the past and used them for sex? That could be why you feel guilty or have trouble getting off to her pictures.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          yes but the last time i had a girlfriend i was 13 (im 17 now)

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          • charli.m
            9 years ago

            Then be very careful about sending or receiving nude or sexual photos. You can both be charged with distributing/receiving child porn and be registered as sex offenders.

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  • sandraasiilva
    9 years ago

    Aww, that's cute. You really respect and love her. But don't feel guilty about that, you're doing nothing wrong. I'm sure she wants you to feel aroused by them.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      She wants me to jerk off to them and although I don't feel bad about being aroused by them, just that other part

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      • sandraasiilva
        9 years ago

        It's normal. I've seen some guys talking about similar things here. But it's ok if you do the other part, too. Probably you'll feel guilty after that, though.
        Maybe if you talk about it with your girlfriend, to see what she says? you may feel more comfortable to do the other part, after seeing that your girlfriend is okay with that.

        My boyfriend once told me that he didn't watch porn when we started dating, because he felt like he was betraying me. I told him I was completely ok with that, and he could have his moments alone, when we are away, because I don't see that as cheating. Now I know he no longer feels guilty.

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  • CheyChey
    9 years ago

    Aww I wish my potential long distance boyfriend does that when we do eventually get there. I heard that guys will masturbate to a picture of their significant other anyway but if he feels guilty about it then it means he really really likes her and considers her to be more than just arousal material.

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    • thexian
      9 years ago

      I really don't get what you mean... How does a physical attraction to someone take away the love for that person?

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      • CheyChey
        9 years ago

        It doesn't, it actually enhances the love\affection but it can cheapen the whole thing when it's all ends up being completely about the physical.

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