Now that we're married, she's constantly compromising my leadership

The title seems a little weird; There shouldn't be a leadership in marriage.
Have you actually talked to her about this. Have you told her it bothers you she can't trust you with anything? Because really that's the problem, I think. If she questions you all the time it feels like she doesen't trust you and that hurts. Talk to her. Maybe then you'll also find out why she does what she does instead of just blaming it on a "weird feminist logic". That's your wife for god's sake! It's time to get to know her.

Just get a maid in to do the cooking and cleaning and get a whore to suck you off twice a week. Tell your bitch wife you can get women to do a better job than her also. She'll get the message.

Is there a question in there somewhere or just giving us a update?

You sound like an asshole.

What a biiitch

How long were you together before the marriage? Because all this should've come up at least a dozen times before.

Bitch slap

Put your dick in her mouth.

My Good man I am only going to tell you this once, "Grow a pair of balls and tell her to shut her Pie hole if she does not have anything positive to contribute!

What else did you think would happen as soon as that ring was placed on her finger?

Have you talked about this with her? I don't mean that, "You're making me feel insignificant, stop please," but an actaul discussion where you can understand each others' point of view.

I guess no one elected you leader of your marriage. You're not in a leadership role, but in a partnership!