Nothing like dat black thang.

I'm a white guy who has always been hot for black women. I've had many more black girls in the sack than white women. My family has never approved of this. They are not racist per se. It's just much more acceptable for them if I bring a white girl home for the holidays or whatever. My current girl is black and we are going to get married in a few months. My Dad is there for me on this, but my Mom and my two sisters got a problem with it. Talk about your house divided. My girl's family seems to be divided on how they feel about me as well. I can't say that we don't give a fuck about what our families feel because we do. We love each other, of this we have no doubt. Why can't the people who love us see this? We are thinking of getting both of our families together for a kind of dinner discussion about all of this. Wouldn't that be a really normal thing to do? My girl and me have been together for a year and a haft. We think that is plenty of time for everyone to adjust to us.

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Comments ( 8 )
  • RoseIsabella

    The blacker the berry the sweeter the juice!

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    • dirtybirdy

      Damn you beat me to it!

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      • RoseIsabella

        Ain't nuthin, but a thang, sisah.
        ;-)

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  • Casual racism is all the rage these days.

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  • markwalsh

    Race matters. With race it comes attitude. You can see the difference when you go to black majority area. Even naturally it matters, I just read about a biracial kid who need bone marrow transplant but cud not get one because it neither matched any race. He died.

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  • Theexpandable1

    Honestly we all piss , shit the same way.. At the end of the day I think they will get over it especially after you guys get married!

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  • robbieforgotpw

    Powercrap

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  • Avant-Garde

    There's racism on both sides! I'm not sure how a dinner discussion would go down, in these modern days, you might find them censoring their beliefs, especially seeing as they are casually racist. I have a feeling that her side could end up being more open with their beliefs. I am not being racist here, this comes from experience. The worse case scenario is that both sides end up agreeing against the marriage. My parents went through some issues from being a mixed race couple. I remember my mother claiming that she had had issues with my father's side, but she never explicitly told me what those were. She didn't handle the situation well.

    The more I think about it, the more I don't think putting them in a room to discuss is right. You can't really force someone to change their views if you don't want to. Be glad that your dad is supportive. The others may need some time to come around to the idea, or they may never. Don't waste your breath from holding it. Don't let them prevent you from getting married.

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