Not to want to sleep w/my boyfriend after years of being rejected ?

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I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I initiated sex 90% of the time and was rejected 90% of those times. After trying to bring it up multiple times I told him I thought we should break up. Now he's trying to initiate but I don't want to. Normal and acceptable?

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Based on 256 votes (204 yes)
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  • Gabriell
    14 years ago

    You are one FUCKED UP couple.

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  • juuliewright
    14 years ago

    Dish ouuut a taste of his own medicine.

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  • b454
    13 years ago

    That's bullshit. You shouldn't be with him anymore. You got needs mama

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  • ruralfrights
    14 years ago

    I would be interested to know what this is really about. Aside from that, it's certainly not healthy for you. I know relationships are not about sex alone, but it factors into the equation, especially at your age. I wonder if he's closeting other desires, sleeping w someone else, or satisfying himself by masturbating. Not to create doubt, I just wonder

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  • whitneykingery
    14 years ago

    Totally normal. Who wants a man that doesn't want to have sex!!??!

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  • Sinsector
    12 years ago

    Its simple. You're not compatible. Maybe as friends. But for intimacy, the chemistry just seems way off. I would give it some time off to be on your own for a while and see where it goes from there.

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  • joelsmo
    13 years ago

    It is perfectly normal. Love is a strange thing, he has hurt you so often that deep inside you want him to know what its like. It sounds like you are not a match for each other, so stop playing games, do as you say and leave.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Damn all yaw some bitches, respect his person if he aint comftorble dnt be a total bitch about it and leave him jus cuz of it, ur forcing him into it, so stop...:D

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  • Hotmama3454
    13 years ago

    leave him he will only reject you once he has you fully again and then you will be vulnerable and might cheat so just leave before this happens.

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    • Continental
      13 years ago

      hahahahahaha you speak from experience

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    why would u want to have sex with him

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  • Xilos
    13 years ago

    I know it is one of those childish sounding remarks, but he actually does sound like he might be gay and that his current moves on you might be out of guilt. Has he ever been passionate with you? You guys should really have a talk. Even if he is straight, this is something you need to talk about. Sex is vital for relationships and you shouldn't settle for one that's lacking.

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  • JuliusE
    13 years ago

    Oops I voted no. The situation is definitely not normal but your reaction is. In all seriousness, he sounds gay. In fact I am almost 100% positive unless there is some other major issue

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  • Divine.Infekt
    14 years ago

    I would have totally done the same thing.
    Who would want to live like Mr. and Mrs.Roper from Threes' company?
    The man never wanted to do anything with his wife.

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