Not over a not-so-serious relationship

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Over 2 years ago, I was seeing this guy for about 3 months. We weren't too serious, mainly because I didnt want to get too attached so I acted a bit impersonal the whole time. We never talked about the future with each other, our relationship, or complimented/said we liked each other etc. Eventually I guess he got fed up and cut me out randomly and completely ignored me.

Few months later I tried to contact him because I randomly found his facebook and I had some health concerns I had to discuss with him, yet he did not reply.

I ran into him few months after that, so then I flat out discussed the concerns with him and tried to exchange numbers with him but he ignored me when I tried to reach him.

Months later, we finally started talking on facebook but he didn't want to talk to me so much after finding out I had a boyfriend and issues I had with the bf.

I don't know why I still have feelings for this guy. I usually get over guys quickly, and I've been in other 2 serious relationships..much more serious than this one (3 year relationship and 6mnth one). I'm completely over the other two ones, even though they ended after this one. Is this normal? Has anyone else experienced this?

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  • shuggy-chan
    12 years ago

    cause the fact u held back in the relationship u have the "what if" stigma. its normal, and like all annoying things, it will go away when u dont even realize it. So just keep living ur life, it will probably go way on its own.

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