Not lucky to be in love with my best friend

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Okay, i know this is completely normal because i mean they even make movies about this kind of stuff. but if you've ever heard the song crush by Mandy Moore, i am the exact definition of that song word for word. I hate being in love with my best friend, especially when everyone in our class will look at us and be like, "y'all should go out, or, y'all are gonna get married one day" because all i can think on the inside is I WISH. ):

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  • Diver2
    10 years ago

    I like guys who suck me off but would only love a woman. Does that make sense.

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  • blackmesa
    12 years ago

    It's normal but it's a dangerous thing. If you really want to be with him you have to take the chance make the move NOW. And I really mean right now. Text him to ask him out or something. If you don't do it now you will only hurt yourself and probably enter the infamous ''friend zone''. So do it. I think it's better to take the chance now than to hate yourself for not doing it later.

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  • MrSoloDolo
    14 years ago

    same situation. in love wit my bestfriend, but she dun feel the same, i think about it ALL the time, the thoughts of her consumes me theres never a time i dun think bout her or wana be wit her, i even dream bout her almost everynight, and it kills me when she says itll never happen, even though she says it wont happen i have hope that for maybe some miracle will happen and it will happen, its a very hard thing to live wit, ive wanted to break things off wit her a few times but cant stand the thought of hurting her, so i am trying to keep in my feelings to myslef. but seeing her wit other men kills me and even worse she wants me to be friends wit them and i really dun wanna be in that situation to be hurt even more. but its the sacrifice i make to keep the bestfriend ive ever hadd

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    • blackmesa
      12 years ago

      The only thing I see here is you not having the balls to end it. I'm not trolling, I've been there and I wish someone told me what I'm telling you now: you should end this. Saying it will ''hurt'' her is just an excuse, the one being hurt by this situation is you. She won't like you that way ever so you should end that friendship to forget about your feelings. She will get over it but you will be the one who suffers the most. You should find someone who loves you back. Conclusion: that friendship is toxic.

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  • Psycho_Mantis
    14 years ago

    that sucks mate, im similar with my ex, she still says she loves me but she just cant be with me again, but she still kisses me n shit like that, kills me inside but u just deal with it.
    if ya want n honest opinion tell her how ya feel, while u still got the chance cos if/when she gets with someone else it will kill u even more to see them together.
    what have ya got to lose, as long as u dont tell her ur a madly in love with her and give her the impression ya a psycho, either way you will still stay friends.
    wish ya the best mate

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    • jessicaskins
      14 years ago

      well im a girl in love with a guy, and i dont want to scare him, and your situation i see it every day. with my friends kara and diego they were together for 7 months and she broke up with him but he still loves her so much and she leads him on even though she has another boyfriend now. and it kills me to see him so upset.

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