Not knowing how to kiss...

I've been flirting with this girl lately. She is really cute and I think she likes me the way I like her. She has kissed a few other guys before. I haven't. We have already been alone a few times and had the perfect opportunities to kiss but when we are about to I just pussy out because I'm afraid I might do it wrong or she might not like it...

Is this normal? In the comments please tell me what I should do, I really have no idea.

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Comments ( 35 )
  • TheGuruOfTheSauce

    Why do you have to kiss guys to learn how to kiss a girl anyways man?

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    • MrNotNormal

      are you like actually retarded? he meant she has kissed other people but he hasn't

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  • imstraight69

    lol there no wrong or right way just do it and if she doesnt like it take out your cock she will like that

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  • MYSWEETPUSSY

    Just go for it and do it really soft,no porno toung

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  • TieDiedSuperstar

    When you do kiss a girl, and you ask how you were, she will always give a positive response until you break up and she hates you.

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  • imnotkidding

    I still can't get over this. Lol

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  • At least you have managed to not only talk, but flirt with the girl you like. That's further than I dare to go -.-''

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  • jean

    the dude(look to the comment up) is fckin right

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  • soccer2

    Go for it. You will never know until you do it. It requires practice to get good. Just start with little pecks and follow the movements of her lips. You will get it homeslty don't worry. It's an instinct

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  • nasty_heartbreaker

    I missed a good opportunity once.
    That was the last one of my life.
    Now i don't talk to any girls. Rather they don't talk to me.
    Im a pussy repeller.
    Don't be like me.
    Go score, tiger.

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  • I dont know how to kiss a girl either

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  • Theaccount190

    Listen bet thing to do is do a normal kiss but with your mouth open a little wider then the usual peck... Let her come back for the second one... And follow the leader... I've kissed probably 20 girls and it's always diffrent... So I still let them go do their thing...

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  • yourenottheonlyone

    It comes naturally. I remember my first kiss with a boy and it just sort of happend by itself.

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  • pao

    there is no perfec way to kiss. A kiss is a expresion of love. It doesn't matter how you do it. .. the thing is that you are giving and receiving affection. Beside, if you love someone and she loves you.. who care how is the kiss.. I just want him to kiss me. right?

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  • Savmagic

    Someone who commented has MYSWEETPUSSY as a username hahahahhahahah

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  • lalaforthehaha

    just take it slow you don't have to full on makeout straight away and be easy with the touge action :)

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  • beerlover123

    Haha I agree with soccer2. The first time I made out with with a girl, she told me it was like I'd been doing it for years. Just naturally happened.

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  • Well open ur mouth then shut it EASEY

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  • VampGurl

    seriously theres nothing to it. I'm girl though so.. but anyways start out with a peck kiss on the lips if your talking frechy frenchy be Light on the tounge! girls don't like being gagged! just masagge her tounge with yours. my first boyfriend who I ever made out with had more exspirance then me at the time told me just pretend im tattoing a large number 8 in his tounge while his going the other direction and idk I think I'm damn good kisser L0l

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  • geffrogeAAA

    dude it all comes in the moment just dont be a pussy and step up. u'll no what to do in the heat of the moment trust me i went through that a few years ago.

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  • yeah it's normal.. i'm a girl though and i'm afaid to kiss because i think i'm not going to do it right..Me & a friend he liked me and wanted to kiss me it took like a week to think about it and one day i just did it..We didn't do no french kissing or no contact with the tongue just kissed normal.You should try it that way..It's easier and it you won't be nothing to be afraid of cause I don't know how to kiss either.. But after that the guy said I was a good kisser :D. lol

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  • auNatural

    When she give you a hug you can go into it. If you get another moment like that just do it. Whatever you do,Do not surprise her with it give her some kind of hint that you want to kiss her and you will most likely kiss her.

    For me personally I don't like when a guy just goes in for it because 9/10 I don't like him in that kind of way to begin with and I kind of like some type of warning if he is going to do that.
    I like obvious warnings. If you want to kiss me just let me know and depending on who if I like you like that we can make things happen.
    This usually works on me.When a guys say something like "when am I going to get my kiss?".It opens discussion and displays that he is confident that he will get his kiss but he is just waiting for you to be ready.

    When you do kiss her. Do not be sloppy and super aggressive(FYI wet and sloppy kisses are nasty).Be gentle and you can follow her lead until you figure out what you are doing and you can take the lead. By the way you want a more innocent type a kiss when you first this that person for the first time.

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  • sparrowfeed

    can i tell you something?

    i've had this experience recently with a guy. PLEASE do not ram your entire tongue in her throat upon minimal contact with her face. we need our esophagus to eat.

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  • wallofgum

    if you notice she bites her bottom lip frequently around you that's a good sign. I actually tested that out a while back and it's true in some cases, I'd bite mine then she bite hers and we did that a few times and I knew it felt right...at least with me lol. It's really an "in the moment thing" you'd feel it.

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  • sparrowfeed

    Meh. I don't like kissing. I enjoy just being close.. hugging and holding each other.

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  • KevKevTehBoss

    dont listen to the person above me, never ask a girl if you can kiss her or ''if she wants to go make out.'' stupid. the next time you find yourself with an open opportunity, count down from 10 to 0, and then just do it. when you start counting to 3... 2... 1..., just smile, like you're happy because you know what you're about to do.

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    • thanks that seems like a nice tip

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  • lol all of the above are right and i second soccer2's comment BTW i also had these probs i also missed opertunities but then i just went for it i was also shy ~understander

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  • woah321

    I don't think it's a certain way. Lol. Guys just do it.

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  • BUGABOO-666-

    It's normal to feel that way; I felt the same exact way and actually missed quite a few great opportunities myself. You gotta just go for it, dude, but don't be aggressive at all. Start off very lightly and it'll be fine. =]

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  • lavabava

    Look, just wait for a moment when both of you are silent. Than grab her chin and SLOWLY tilt her head towards you and go for the kiss. Not aggressively

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  • babaG

    It's not that hard... Just go for it. You'll never know if you keep pussying out of life!

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  • brah

    Put ur toungue up her nose

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  • I had that with my girlfriend a while ago when we first started going out, just. Go for it or even just ask her "do u wanna go make out?" chances are she'll say yes or walk with her and stop and then kiss her. she probably Wants to kiss you so you shouldn't be shy girls hate pussys. Just go for it

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  • imnotkidding

    Are you in middle school!?

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