Not interested unless intoxicated.thank you.

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I won't go into too much detail, but I will say I do enjoy sex. I don't think it has anything to do with being uncomfortable physically usually. I like things to be exciting and new. Recently, when a friend and I were chatting late night we made a blind observation that I felt the need to be intoxicated in some way or another before I get interested in even having sex.And it's become a habit more so lately than usual; I do remember "sober sex" not being as thrilling. But I was also with a man who didn't make me very happy at the time.I don't know if this tendancy to get fu*ked up before I do get active is normal for woman, and at my age. Just an self observation that kind of struck me.forgive me if I sound over reactive. Just looking for opinions.

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  • Stephanie_87
    13 years ago

    Maybe try sex with a better partner

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    maybe try having sex with girls who are attractive even when you havent been drinking... lol

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  • dinchuckdinchuck
    14 years ago

    Maybe you should try to put the bottle away and try normal sex without intoxication. You might like it.

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  • gabe145
    15 years ago

    i think you want this cuz A you are more willing to try stuff, B you won't regret it as much and C you feel that you won't have to commit if you don't want to, but remember you can try stuff when ever you souldn't regret anything and you never have to do anything in life exept die, and that's not for yyears to come

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  • oskilover18
    15 years ago

    Being drunk helps you get over being nervous for sex. And sometimes I find it helpful. However, you should try not to use it as a crutch. A lot of awful things can happen when you're drunk and having sex (think Knocked Up).

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  • Stormey
    15 years ago

    I had a psychology professor say to my lecture class once that if we were only having sex under the influence, we weren't ready for the responsibility of having sex.

    That being said, I understand where you are coming from. For over seven years I didn't have sex without being drunk or on drugs. I realize now that it was a way of justifying what I was doing; if other people judged me for having sex with someone, I could just blame it on being f'ed up.

    So while I totally think that it is "normal" I think you should take a look at whether or not it is actually your interest level that increases when you are intoxicated or if it is your inhabitions that are lowered so you don't have to face insecurity. Trust me...when the right person comes along, being completely lucid and totally in control and making decisions because you WANT to...it makes the sex OUT OF THIS WORLD amazing.

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  • Krenn
    15 years ago

    Does sound odd, depends on the type.

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