Not in love

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Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for roughly 7 months. We've both never been in as serious as a relationship and we both know we like eachother. When I first met him it hit hard and I was extremely infatuated with him and he was my only thought. I fell out of infatuation a few months ago and though I know I "like" him I haven't felt a third as strongly about him ever since. I just feel neutral around him and I feel like as months progress I don't feel any different towards him. I'm nervous I'll never fall in love and I can't love. I don't know if he's in love with me yet but he has told me he loves me and he shows a few signs.

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  • redrainbow22
    6 years ago

    I dont think the love ever has to stop between you two.

    It just all depends on your situation. If your holding something against him, that could be weighing down your opinion on him, holding a grudge pretty much.

    Or if you two dont talk much, and you want to more.

    The love for each other never has to stop. Maybe talk about new things. Go on exciting romantic trips, dates, or adventures.

    Just be there for each other. The love really doesnt have to end :)

    Also not to make this like a rude thing, but you can always take a break from him once in a while, you two dont always have to be doing something together. That way you'll miss him, and want to be back with him as soon as you can.

    I'm not saying you two cant always want to be with each other :) Cause that sounds romantic to me. Caring for the person so much you always want to be with them

    Heres another thing, it could be that you havent got to know him well enough.
    Because if he knows you really well, then he can feel a connection towards you, but if you barely know him, then that might be why you may not feel the same way about him.

    Love is a two way street :) Same with friendship. You guys gotta care about each other.

    But I'm just coming up with random ideas ;P

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    • SIYB
      6 years ago

      Thank youu

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      • redrainbow22
        6 years ago

        yup :)

        Happy Early Merry Christmas!

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  • paramore93
    6 years ago

    What you're describing sounds like the honeymoon period, at first everything is new and exciting but after a while things calm down and it can feel as though something is missing ..
    Maybe give yourself some time to figure out how you really feel, some people take longer to fall in live than others :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    It's normal. It is human nature to lose interest in things, particularly after you get or experience them.

    Some romantics don't like to believe that this aspect of our nature applies to our relationships, but I doubt your brain really differentiates between the two once you get down into the science of infatuation and intrigue.

    Marriages have something called a "honeymoon phase" too.
    The passion fades, and ignorant couples are left wondering what's wrong because things feel mundane.

    I think you're fine; you still like the guy after all. Unless he's changed, the qualities that you saw in him didn't dissipate with the strength of your affection.

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Suk his penis

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