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Me and my man have been together for 6 years and are still crazy about each other, but the sex has died down. I want it more but he's not in the mood as much. Is this normal?
Sex is getting wierd for man after several years of relations. You should add something new or do it in the new places. Watch porn, it helps pretty quick (alone or together).
i think that might be a good idea. as far as i know, this is a perfectly normal problem. as long as you love each other, that's all that matters. sex is only a small part of any relationship.. if you're getting along in other ways, that's great.
you should talk to him about it if it bothers you. can be hard but worth a shot.
If hes a dude then it cant be normal. U think he may be cheating? You two been together for six years and not married? I personally think marriage is just a piece of paper and whether u do or not is completely irrelevant. Im just asking cuz a lot of girls do have the desire to marry....if u do have u brought it up to him? If he loves you he would but if hes against it totally then maybe u ought to question his loyalty to you.
i agree with you on that marriage stuff. After such a long time you never know if he would want to try something new. What you can do is instead of him going out there and finding it then it's a probelm for both you guys why dont you spice up the sex life and try new things with toys or add another sex partner. most guys luv the whole threesome idea. But before you do it just have a normal conversation with him and see if he's interested in it but dont tell him you're going to do it just surprise him.
Get a vibrator and tell him your going upstairs to have a play, he will soon follow...
This is very normal. It has nothing to do with you. People's sex drives change over the years and you cannot expect the two of you on equal level every single time. At some point in his life, he will want it more than you too and he will have to do something about it. Talk to him and work something out, go see a doctor, whatever. Just go sort it out.
completely. try spicing things up with role playing or fantasies (every guy has one)
The hard truth is he's cheating on you. Right now at a rest stop with some random trucker. Looking for adventure in a bathroom stall.
yeah i think its normal.. ole' boy is probably too tired of the same routine. spice things up. dont turn into old marriede couples. keep it interesting. he wasnts to.. you just have to show him that you want to too(;
Not normal for him, either something's up and not in the good way or he's losing his libido.
Most of us need or want more sex. I yo can't get it at home go look for it. Or pay for it like us guys do. It's less hassle
First try a little spice, a dirty movie, texts telling him what you want to do, if that doesn't work toss him there are too many guys out there who would kill for a women who actually wants sex. If you don't now you will in another 6 years
Take the dominant role ;) when he arrives home after popping to the shops or w.e make sure that when he opens the door the first thing he sees is you standing their wearing some lingerie. This will massively turn on your man and should, after a while, improve your sex life :)
I am having around the same problem with my husband. Although we have only been married for about 3 months, between his night shift job and sleep schedules there is barely anytime for sex anymore. We used to be very active in bed, sometimes up to 16 times a day. now Im lucky if I get it 1 time every couple days. I advise either having a chat with him about it, or just like other comments stated try to spice things up a bit. Maybe some sexy outfits to get his attention!
anthropologically his need to go out and propagate has died down after six years and psychologically he feels comfortable in the fact that you are there and still will be in the years to come. your man has cemented your relationship with him u just have to pull him out of that level of comfort and get him excited again
i been there too. We tried to solve and, what we find out eventually was we love to fck a lot, but we were too tired all the time cause of the work.
Spice it up, surprise him wear sexy things. Do things to provoke him, let him see a side of U that he hasn't seen before, I'm sure U'll both will be going at it all the time.
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