Normal way out of the friendzone?

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Things you need to know: I'm in the Friend Zone with one i love.
Known her 6years. If this doesn't work its not gonna ruin the friendship.

FRIEND ZONE AT WAR: Okay, so the plan is to shock the friend Zone of of her so to speak.
Here's how it goes. She comes to my house one evening to chill. We get hungry and i act like I'm driving us to get fast food or something.
But there's this tiny recreation centre directly behind my house. Just swings and a couple picnic tables under a roof. I drove us to that instead. From the car she can see the ice sickle Christmas lights ( white lights ) along the roof and One Nearest tree lit up as well. A picnic table covered by an elegant table- cover. A couple candles in the middle. With one pink rose.
Covered dishes on either side ( her for and mine). Maybe McDonalds for inside if i decide to be funny. And I'm thinking MAYBE some custom fortune cookies.
What you tlink? Good try? Not n normal?

Oh, and there will be a mix tape

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    11 years ago | pl

    How about try going after someone else, because she's probably just not into you?

    I am so sick of people whining about being "friendzoned." Guess what Einstein, you can't force someone to develop feelings for you, and it sure sounds like you're trying to force the romance. It's never going to work, she'll probably just feel pressured and try to back out of it nicely, leaving you hanging on to the hope that someday she'll date you.

    Know how many times I've been "friendzoned?" Last year someone lived with me, I gave them food, shared my booze and my cigarettes, shared everything with that fucker because it seemed like there was something there. Turns out he was just using me and my attraction toward him.

    Most of the guys I've wanted a chance with, most of my friends I felt the most strongly for... never felt anything for me. That's just kind of how it goes, and accepting it gracefully is much more attractive than crying "Bawww, friendzone D:".

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    • Hippie
      11 years ago

      Thank you for b your input. I'll consider it.

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  • dappled
    11 years ago

    If this works, I will actually not only eat my hat and my shoe, I will go so far as to eat a McDonald's burger.

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    • OswaldCobblepot
      11 years ago

      Those are burgers?!

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  • lilfizz
    11 years ago

    well ther is no way to get out of freindzone with all this heres a tip be a great friend and sit back and watch things unfold it sounds stupid but im the expert ive had 8 girlfriends

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  • Hippie
    11 years ago

    K. Didn't do that. Just started talkin and textin with a black guy accent. I think its working oddly enough. Lol idk, " it be makin her laugh 'do. Fo show."

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  • Francophile22
    11 years ago

    Sorry, pal, won't work.

    Signed,
    One Who Knows From Experience

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  • VioletTrees
    11 years ago

    If I were her, this would creep me right the fuck out. If you want to date her, just ask her.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Six years...I see a bad fortune inside this cookie. I'm not saying it's a bad idea it's just a bad idea for the type of relationship you two have. I can't say I can tell you it's normal or not because I know nothing about your relationship with her, but if she friend zoned you and she has shown no interest in you as more than that since then then it may very well be abnormal.

    I think you have the wrong idea. You don't want to "shock" the friend zone out of her. It's more than likely going to have the opposite effect.

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