Normal to want to have sex with my good friend?

She’s a sweet Asian girl whom I’ve known for 2 years. She is incredibly nice and does things most girls wouldn’t do to strangers( in the sense of not being related) For example I had some food on my face while we where talking, and she used her hands to wipe the food off my face !! I was so stunned when she did that because no girl I’ve known would ever do that! Well that’s one of the many reasons that I like her. The thing is she doesn’t see me as anything other then just a good friend, and she thinks my mentality is the same. I now have thoughts of having sex with her( she’s also very attractive). I can never bring myself to telling her this myself because it might ruin our friendship... I feel like a sexual maniac. Might I add that she also has a boyfriend..

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90% Normal
Based on 30 votes (27 yes)
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Comments ( 21 )
  • Cuntsiclestick

    Its normal, but don't act on it because you're correct about it ruining your friendship since she's in a relationship and only sees you as a friend.

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    • I know..

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  • Meowypowers

    If you are Asian be careful. Don't talk about white privelaged too much. If you know what I'm saying.😉

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  • IrishPotato

    U docta?

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    • What?

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      • IrishPotato

        Come back when u docta

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  • BlindSpot

    Well this friendship seems one sided. Lol

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    • Sometimes..

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  • RoseIsabella

    This is why I call guys brah a lot.

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    • SwickDinging

      Yeah, this works well. I also find occassional stories of you being gross and unsexy in some way keeps things in the right zone.

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      • RoseIsabella

        I think so. Well, I certainly hope so!

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    • Oohh friendzoned!!

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      • RoseIsabella

        So what? If I knew some guy wanted to be sexual with me, and wasn't satisfied with just my friendship I'd rather not be anything. Sex isn't that important to me, if it's sex with someone I'm not interested in at all. I had a very close male bestfriend who told me once what he wanted to do to me sexually, so I had to dump him as a friend. He said he was joking, and even cried, but I wasn't comfortable with him anymore. If my friendship isn't good enough for someone then than person is not worthy, or deserving of my friendship.

        If you care about your friend you will treat her with respect, and not be inappropriate with her.

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        • SwickDinging

          This is fair enough, I think. Regardless of your feelings on sex (want it, hate it etc) I think it breaks that bond of trust that friends have if one of you wants to be sexual. Even if they are nice about it... How can you be a true friend to someone if you want to fuck them? It doesn't really work. You are there because of the sex feelings, not the friend feelings. Disingenuous.

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          • RoseIsabella

            Yeah, pretty much.

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  • brutus

    Yes normal.

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    • true

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  • JD777

    You never know.......she might be thinking the same about you.

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    • I doubt it ... I know when a girl is interested or not, she doesn’t do anything that shows it.

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      • SwickDinging

        Except touch your face..?

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        • Well to her it was like a friendly gesture or something. She doesn’t show signs of liking me as a boyfriend more so friend. Like I said she’s just really nice.

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