Normal to not get aroused by porn?

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I have trouble getting aroused by porn. The only reason I keep watching it is because I feel tense alot and that either sex or beating off lowers stress levels, and I'm looking for any way to feel less tense and reduce my stress. But, I'm having trouble actually getting turned on by porn videos now, it's a struggle to get hard, and I can't get myself to ejaculate at all. I try to get a hard-on but mostly I just have a soft-on. Physically or mentally, I can not get turned on by hardly anything on xvideos.com, pornhub, or any others.

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  • bigbudchonga
    5 years ago

    You're desensitized dude. Take some benzos if you want to chill out.

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  • leaflights
    5 years ago

    try reading it instead bc you can imagine it how you like the best

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  • myfreakinopinion
    5 years ago

    Porn is a fantasy, not a reality.

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  • leggs91200
    5 years ago

    If it is because you watched it too much -
    You are burnt out. Like anything in life, we can enjoy things only so many times. Eventually the body/mind doesn't respond.

    However -
    If you are NOT burnt out and have never enjoyed porn period, maybe it just isn't your thing. Maybe decide what you really like and seek that out, even if it's soft core. Well put it this way - my tastes are tame enough that it is easy to find on even youtube.

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  • EnglishLad
    5 years ago

    Either you haven't found the correct niche yet, or you need a girlfriend with a killer body who will let you do everything and anything to her.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Congratulations, you've looked at so much porn that you broke yourself, and it doesn't work anymore. BAHAHAHA! Sorry, but the best thing to do is to just take a break from masturbation, and stop looking at pornography altogether.

    There are other ways to unwind, and relieve stress besides masturbation. You can exercise, do some Yoga, take a hot bath, do some aromatherapy, listen to relaxing music, have a nice cup of herbal tea. I really great herbal tea that I love is called Tension Tamer, and the name of the company that makes it is Celestial Seasonings.

    I'm sorry, but masturbation, and pornography are not the answer to your problem. All you have done is desensitize yourself. I'm sorry, but in the grand scheme of things your problem is one of your own making, and not that important when one considers everything else in the world. First world self-inflicted problem is what you've got there.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      So the websites saying that internet porn destroys your sex drive are true? I don't know, I've known not to believe everything you read on the internet. But I guess some of it's true.

      I'll try that Tension Tamer herbal tea, and I'll excersise.

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        Right on! Yeah, honestly whatever fantasies I have in my head are better than pornography. I kinda think the people are really plastic and fake which grosses me out.

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    • McBean
      5 years ago

      Tension Tamer. Sounds like a non-pornagraphic orgasm in your mouth. Thanks for the suggestion. Unlike the OP, I am very selective about porn. I have a collection of women that look like other women I know in real life. Porn makes you less of a creep if you have a personal connection.

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        5 years ago

        There are billions of "creeps" out there, you know that there are 800,000 people watching porn every second in the world? And 70 million different porn videos uploaded every day? And on most of the videos on xvideos.com and xxnx.com, which display how many views on each one, the numbers are anywhere from 50,000 to like 5 million on each video, and there are a shitload of videos. My question is I wonder how many of them are becoming flaccid?

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        • McBean
          5 years ago

          Soft cocks are everywhere. I've tried to find a woman to fuck. I've only been successful a few times. Life is empty with out comforting skin contact in the sack. It sucks to be unattractive.

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        It's almost as if you asking me to ignore you.🙄 It's like you are deliberately trying to get on my nerves.

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        • RoseIsabella
          5 years ago

          Tension Tamer tea is awesome, and it smells great!

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          • McBean
            5 years ago

            Again, thanks for the suggestion. I might try it. And, feel free to ignore me. My response to your comment was mostly intended as a counter point to help guys that live lonely lives to avoid masturbation burn-out.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              5 years ago

              I'm going to stop watching porn, since it's not doing anything for me anyway. My sex drive is almost dead.

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            • RoseIsabella
              5 years ago

              I just don't care for quasi sexual talk out of context!

              Anyway, OP will probably just be annoyed by my suggestions, and ignoreot. Sorry but the sort of problem he has described is really not a problem of anything other than his own making.

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