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I'm a 20 year old guy, and theres this girl I work with who I've only talked to maybe 4 times. I find her very attractive and like her personality a lot. I have a huge crush on her (even though I barely know her) and think about her a lot. My question is, is it normal to like someone so much that you barely know? Are any of you girls and guys like this?
Yeah, normal, but don't think about her when she's not around if you don't know her that well. It usually affects your behavior when you're around her, in a bad way. It's fun to fantasize, but often it hurts your reality. If you want to get with her, treat her like a normal person, not the subject of a fantasy.
It's been my experience that many people get harder to like the more you know about them.
The reason you like her is b/c you don't know her. Familiarity breeds contempt.
It's perfectly normal! I'm a girl and for me, the same day I met my bf in person we just clicked, had sex and we've been together for over 3 years!
We did chatted before because a friend gave him my email but just like 3 times or so.
Have fun, there's a chance it turns out greater than you think (:
It's normal to have a crush on anybody. If she's single, I suggest you get to know her better. Something good can come from it. If not, that's okay...you can at least be friends.
I agree. When you don't know the person, you can use your imagination. It's unrealistic but sometimes I prefer to not know my crushes. It ruins the fantasy for me.
It's normal. We all tend to project certain ideals and feelings onto people, creating something totally irrational. Love/lust is irrational. The more you do get to know her, the more you'll be let down by the reality of it all. However, that doesn't mean you shouldn't pursue it.
Totally normal. A lot of people get crushes on people they barely know really easily, but those feelings will usually fade after some time.
This is very normal. If you barely know someone you project your fantasies on to them.
yeah, pretty normal dude! this happens to everybody i guess. the important thing is to tell the girl how you feel... just say something light to begin with like "hey your real pretty" or something like that.