Normal to date a man who got married without your knowledge?

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Was dating this guy for 7 weeks now on and off and apparently, through one of his friends, I was told he got married 2 weeks ago! But why the heck was he still saying he really me and dating me?? The chick he married is really really not at all what I thought he'd like. She's 9 years older than him and shes asian (hes white). I find this so odd and also, leading me on and cheating on a wife is sick!!!!!

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  • justjosh
    13 years ago

    Get out now. That's bullshit if it's was nothing he would of told you

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  • dragona
    13 years ago

    Dump the jerk

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  • mtnw
    13 years ago

    dump the jerk.

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  • bazwell
    13 years ago

    Presuming he had been seeing this lady for those 7 weeks that he saw you, then he was cheating on her with you (as opposed to the vice versa being the case). It must be both annoying and disappointing to have this news of his marriage brought to your attention; but now, to add insult to injury, he has also humiliated you and cheated you out of the choice of whether or not you would be the other woman. You are rightly valid in your feelings at this point

    My suggestion is that you allow time (as opposed to this particularly cruel fellow) to provide you with the closure that only it can give and take solace in the fact that you may just have dodged a major life bullet.

    best of luck to you!

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  • moomoo563
    10 years ago

    dump the dume ass

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  • DollyBoots
    11 years ago

    ... Do you honestly think there's a shred of normal in your situation?? :/ it's not normal

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    • Ibelievethis
      11 years ago

      What is normal, anyway? xx

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  • MssMurd3r
    11 years ago

    Maybe he married her so she could stay in the country and she paid him so it doesn't mean anything.

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  • Ibelievethis
    11 years ago

    Not your fault if you didn't know, but you can be certain of one thing, hon. If he is cheating on his wife then he will without a shdow of a doubt cheat on you. but seeing as I've been no ark angel Gabriel in the past (wont go in to details I'm not qualified to give you advice and say leave him) as if you love him it wont be that easy. xx

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  • tbiz96
    13 years ago

    DUMP HIS SLIMEY ASS!!!

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  • mprocida
    13 years ago

    Pull an alaniss morosette

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  • sherry
    13 years ago

    DITTO

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Fucking gross. Dump him on his ass. No wait, actualy wait until he is having dinner with his wife at a resturaunt and go there. Make it known to his wife what a cheating loser he is.

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