Normal that my best friends boyfriend and i secretly love eachother?

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My best friend has been with her boyfriend for almost 6 months now. they do not have the best relationship, but they love each other very much. they also have a big age difference (as do him and i) and we live in the USA and he lives in England. i started talking to him for the past 3 or so months and we have become very very close, he is one of my best friends. we both know we have serious feelings for each other but we also know he loves her more than me. my best friend does not know this. we still remain friends, and still love each other, but we both know he loves her more.Is this normal?

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Based on 50 votes (18 yes)
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  • supermarmee
    13 years ago

    You could really hurt your friend here!!! I think you need to choose, do you really want to be in a relationship with someone overseas who, have you even met??? Or do you want to keep your best friend you've been friends with for how long??? I assume you see her all the time??? Great friends don't come around too often, but guys come and go... TIME TO CHOOSE, I think!!!

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    • 1000yrVampireKing
      11 years ago

      This.

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  • rawr1928
    14 years ago

    um m well i would say its ok to feel tht way but its not right for ur bff to not knw hand he needs to pick one or the other

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  • yesyessx
    14 years ago

    Unless he comes to america on a frequent basis, i wouldnt worry to much. Chances are, if its an internet relationship... he probably has tons of other 'girlfriends' and 'loves'.

    I'd just carry it on, and unless he does something or says something thats sexual... theres no need to tell your friend.

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