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Im an 18 year old, single girl and I have a lot of guy friends. I text several of my guy friends and tend to be a little flirty with each of them, like sending smileys a lot, and just being a flirt. Is this normal or am I being slutty?
You're even worse than a slut. You're a tease. At least sluts actually follow through. Please, self-terminate.
IDK why people have to leave lame comments... Idiots with nothing better to do, I suppose. Anyhow, flirting is normal, but be careful because you may unintentionally be sending a wrong message to someone who misinterprets it. Remember that there is no emotion in texting, just words. Words can be misunderstood when you can't see or hear the person who is saying them. Could get you into trouble if you aren't careful. Totally normal for your age, just know when to stop!
I don't see anything wrong with it, as long as your not leading them on.
You're not a slut but you're a huge prick-tease. Men resent prick-teases way more than sluts. Ideally, you should be neither to be "normal".
I remember first year in college a girl that was a huge tease, she would make me hard intentionally but never followed through after a few times I got really mad at her and told her, you know what, fck off and never talk to me again, no one likes a tease really.
if anyone is curious of what happened, I nailed her at the last year when she called and ask me to do just that :P
its normal and dont listen to any of these assholes. they are the type of guys who will guilt a chick into sleeping with them because they cant do it any other way which is so fucking sad for them really....
Normal. Teases are annoying though, no offense. There is nothing romantically sincere about what they say..
Not slutty. You're human right? If you were a girl who was single and had a bunch of dude friends and DIDN'T flirt I would think you're a lesbian. ha
It's all good sweety. Your problem is that your using the wrong measuring stick! Don't rely on your friends and school mates to decide what's good/bad and right/wrong. The world is bigger than five square kilometers... do what you want with whomever you want whenever you want-just don't get used or allow yourself to loose your moral compass!
"Slut" implies that you are having sex with lots of people.
A smile on a text message is VASTLY different than hopping into bed.
it's just a flirt. Very normal. Pretty cute. You're not doing anything slutty, so not slutty.
it is ok to be slutty sometimes but given the fact that they are your friends aren't you being opportunistic to them..
give some respect so they will give respect for you too..
Ain't nothing wrong with that. I probably have more guy friends than girls and sometimes I flirt with them too. As long as they're not your "toy" then I'd say your good.
As long as you dont make them believe you're interested for real, its alright
Duh !!! It's so normal
I always flirt with my male and female friends ... Its fun !
Well I guess it's the intentions that counts lol
Hmm I dont know if your slutty :) < darn looks like im slutty too for putting a smiley face.
If it's right for you, go on. Forget those who feel guilty about sex. Don't play with anyone who's serious - tell him it's for fun, for sex.
Normal. I'm naturally flirty and I flirt with everyone but my friends without realizing it, whether they're girls or guys (I'm bi). I wouldn't worry too much, but don't lead them on or you'll lose some friends.