Normal for parents to say they don't have to respect their children?

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Today I was using mom's computer because there is a website that mine does not work with. After a period my mom asked me to return it and I did not. After about 20 minutes she became enraged and started yelling and took it. It got to the point where she said I was her worst son and a disgraceful person. That people call me abusive towards her (I don't even argue with her unless she starts arguing first and I normally just try to live in peace with everyone and joke around to try to keep the peace) and all that.

I guess she says that because she loves to pick up my room and I try not to be consumed by it-Im not a pig but Im not the type that has to be squeaky clean either, she is-and she is on my case about cleaning my room everyday. But back to the topic.

She said that and I told her back that people have noticed her moods and comment to me about it and she goes like "no one talks about me" and Im like mom, they say that to me because they are afraid to get you angry if they tell you...so my dad steps in and defends her and he says how about I respect my mom and I said "I respect mom! How about you guys respecting me too?" and he grabbed his balls and said "respect you my balls!!!"

Is that normal for a dad to say that to his children?

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29% Normal
Based on 24 votes (7 yes)
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  • Vauael
    7 years ago

    If there are certain websites that dont work on your cpu, you probably need to download another browser. Dont delete the one you have, just download another. You should always have two anyway in case one goes down. Some websites still only run on Internet Explorer. Some sites are optimized for Google Chrome or Mozilla Firefox. I have all three. Then you wont have to use someone elses computer.

    Parents arent perfect. All people are flawed whether they admit it or not. I do not agree with your stepdads actions, but I think you are only able to see your side. She shouldnt have had to come in after 20 minutes because you should have listened the first time. Ignoring her and not doing what you are told is a form of disrespect. You need to learn to problem solve. You need to learn to do things you dont want to do. You need to learn to respect authority and follow directions. I was a hard headed kid too, and my parents didnt know how to deal with me. Now i am the parent of some hard headed kids. Ive been on both sides. Trust me, there is a GOOD reason she wants you to keep your room clean. She is not "moody" for getting angry when you do not do what you are told. Just do it without complaining and move on with your day, and I can almost guaruntee they will respect you more.

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    • AntonioMartin
      7 years ago

      That is great advice, thanks!

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  • jimmythecunt
    7 years ago

    Yes, I would say you are a normal adolescent fucknut and should not worry to much about what they think of you.

    Pretty soon they will be dead and you can do whatever the fuck you like!

    You will probably find that adapting to society is much more difficult than you first assumed...like finding a job and paying for your own shit!

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    ROTFLMAO!!!
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    Well, it is her computer! Honestly, people in my family don't share things like computers or cars for that matter. You're lucky she loaned you the computer in the first place, dumb ass! When someone loans you something you need to return it as soon as the person asks for it back, because the thing you're borrowing doesn't belong to you. Mood swings or not you're being disrespectful of your mother, respect is a two way street.

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