Normal for me to be with a guy whose family are trashy...
when mine aren't?
His mom and dad live in a tiny rundown ranch house, but I'm okay with that because inside, its normal, not trashy at all. They try hard to keep it looking decent and they never swear, ever.
Here's what bothers me:
-His brother lives in a trailer, had a baby at 16, married at 18 and just got divorced with his wife.
-His sister lives in an apartment, got married at 20 to a guy who is 29 within 2 months of meeting each other. She never went to college, makes fun of me for attending it.
-Her husband's father and mother are divorced and his mother remarried to another man 4 years ago but just divorced him.
-Her husband's EX step father always curses excessively and drinks A LOT.
-Her husband's real fathers current girlfriend is closer to HIS age than his fathers age-shes only 39 while his father is 55.
-Her husband's EX step father's sister is 30 and lives in a trailer with her 5 kids and 7 cats. She dresses in dirty clothes always and talks with the F word every 5 minutes. She also got married at 18.
-When I try to talk to my boyfriends sister, she talks weird. I once wished her a merry christmas and simply asked what she was doing and she then said "I have no idea. Why would I know yet its only 11am, not later." Or, when she went to see a movie, "how was it?" she replied, "I dunno."
Also, I asked her for her address so I can send her a christmas gift and card. Her reply was "Okay, my address is : "her address was here" then she said "but i can't ask you for yours because ill forget it."
She was on a computer...
is it normal I'm stuck with them?
I currently live in an apartment with my boyfriend and we plan to move into a home someday and eventually get a home in another state. My boyfriend told her that and she freaked out about this and literally said, "haha that's not possible. you're so stupid don't you realize that you'll never have a house?"
WTF. Half my family own 2 houses...I'm NOT bragging, just stating the facts. It is possible and she KNOWS what my family has. No one in her family went to college except my boyfriend. HES THE FIRST to go. That's what their problem is and that's why my boyfriends mom works at mcdonalds flipping the burgers (literally).
I'm so embarrassed and annoyed with them as they're both rude and ignorant.. How do I put these feelings aside and is it normal to have to deal with this when I don't know anyone else as trashy as this?