Normal for girlfriend to be overprotective?
Cheated on my girl many times in the beginning because she was too scared to lose her v. This girl is the love of my life, and being a young attractive horny teen male i couldn't stop my c**k raging on. When she finally gave in and things were bliss i decided to start fresh and confessed to her about all the other girls i had been seeing while waiting for her.(guys learn this lesson... never confess, just bury it and carry on like nothing happened!). and i promised that i would never cheat on her again now that i had all of her and for a time, things were bliss. Then one day out of the blue my ex calls me up and meets me after it being years since i saw her last, and this particular ex is the only ex that i ever felt was completely submissive to me, she loved me unconditionally. and i felt an attachment to her that told me that now that she's here on the phone then the rest is inevitable.
After that night, i felt guilty for the first time in my life for cheating on a girl. and i had never felt so bad about it and was confused as to why i did it and if it was worth it and to make things worse, she found out... and i have never cheated on her again.
Most girls would just break up but i was lucky enough for her to stay with me but she did not trust me even a fraction of a percentage. that was 4 years ago and for 4 years I have been kept on a tight leash. clubbing is rare, video calls when i'm at my mates, calling the phone companies for an itemised bill for my line and even spyware implanted in my iphone, video calling for the whole night (were in a semi distant relationship - her parents don't know about us yet)... Most guys would cut their losses and move on. but apart from her insecurities and fear of being cheated on she is without any doubts - The One - and when were not arguing over that girl at my mates house who visited randomly and isn't even pretty, we are at happiest when we are together and i believe that once we live together and comes with me everywhere she'll see as well as my mates can see, that i am not cheating on her..
my question to you is..
is it normal for her to go so overboard and james bond about something i haven't done since and was almost half a decade ago?