Normal for a friend to get married spontaneously?

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She's 19 and she randomly gets engaged 3 days back and tomorrow she is getting married! This was a total shocker, I never even met the guy nor have her parents, but her parents are easy going and say, whatever she wants and thats that!

She never graduated high school
never held a job before
her boyfriend is dirt poor

She says its for health care. Do you get this??? She says she is in debt badly with the dentist/doctor and owes over $6,000 and thats she knows hes the one.

Shes only been dating this guy for 5 months. I love her to bunches as shes my bestie since I was younger. What do I do?? I want to change her mind, but I dunno how she said she already paid for the marriage papers or w/e...What do I do???

The guy is a total douch. I bet he'll cheat on her next year. Help should I lecture her or what? I already told her she shouldnt, but she said I'm gonna and got mad at me just for saying that. I dunno what to do. I'm so scared for her. She is gonna ruin her life. HELP???

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Based on 43 votes (8 yes)
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  • Treynine
    13 years ago

    Some people are too stubborn you may just need to let her find out for herself

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  • Golden
    13 years ago

    Just calmly state how you feel and your fears for her once and once only. Tell her you you are only saying it because you care for her and if she chooses to go ahead and marry, that you'll be there for her because your BF's.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You haven't even met him and you say he's a douche?
    Wow you are very supportive of your friend if you just judge her boyfriends and other friends like that.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ^This.

    If you try to talk her out of it she may just push you out of her life.

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  • dragona
    13 years ago

    Coming from some one who screwed up, no matter what you say or do, she isn't going to change her mind. She needs you to be there for her. Even if this doesn't end well

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      So, you went through the same thing? Did you marry young? How long did it take you to divorce?

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