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I live with my 19 year old boyfriend and his family in a one bedroom apartment. when his 12 year old sister walks by i sometimes seem to notice his eyes glance at places he shouldn't which makes me really uncomfortable but i'm just wondering if this is normal?
If she was older, I'd say it's fairly normal. Most guys that age will look at anything female with desire. But, 12? No, not at all normal...Dude has problems.
Is he licking his lips, or raising one eyebrow at her inappropriate clothing? Who knows, impossible to tell if his looking is wrong or not.
Depends if it is a glance or a deep stare. It also depends if he is also touching inappropriately or purposefully undressing her. if just glancing, then no harm.
Here is where context really matters. We aren't there. We can't see just how he is looking at her. We can't tell if he is looking at her longingly, or if he is looking and thinking "I can't believe my baby sister is becoming a woman! Time to find daddy's shotgun..."
Is it normal? I haven;t the slightest idea. It could be, though.
He's just making sure his little sis is developing as she should be and isn't deformed or anything. If only all brothers cared so much for their sisters.
This obsession with paeds has to stop. It says more about the person thinking it than anything else.....
Looking may eventually lead to touching which may lead to ... Well... You get the point. Make h aware of it and it may stop
He's 12... why are those places he's glancing, places he should be glancing?
HE'S 12!! He's becoming aware of sexuality... duh!
It's normal.