Non-drinker at 18

I guess it started when I told my friends I didn't want to drink alcohol until I was 21 (I live in Australia, legal drinking age is 18 but people around here start at about 16 or younger).
Before that I had tried some alcohol at party's and never found it to be that great. Looking at people around me and using "Oh I was drunk" as an excuse really bugged me and I decided I didn't want to drink.

My friends took this as an excuse not to invite me to any social gatherings. And I eventually dropped out of my final year at school because of people in my year.

Now I'm 18 and I have moved to the 'city' and I really feel like I'm the ONLY 18 year old in the world who doesn't drink at all.

Trust me, I have NO issues with other people drinking around me as long as I'm not continually asked (or forced) to drink too.

Since my "bashing" in school I feel I have no confidence and I have nothing in common with teenagers at all.

All of this has forced me to think I'm not a normal teenager... I don't drink, I have no interest in trying drugs and I think a great night out involves a nice restaurant dinner.

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  • You are very normal & these guys sound pretty like hardcore boozers and pricks - not social drinkers and friends. Your issue is less about drinking & teens and more about having friends who share your interests and values.

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  • Inoyoko

    I think that's more normal than the tweens who mess their brains up with alcohol at 13, 14, 15, 16. I did drink once underage, but it was grad night and i only had a few months to go until I was 19 (legal in Canada) and old enough to drink anyway.

    I don't drink often, mostly socially. And you'll find that people who drink when they're younger could end up being a drunk, dead, pregnant, sick, at a dead end job, etc, and would end up wondering how they got this way (if they're not dead)

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  • face_grinder11

    Man, those kids are lost. You make your own fucking choices. I started drinking at 15, I didn't do it for society, both of my parents are dead, I had an excuse. You do whatever makes you feel happy. The people who you were hanging around sound like a bunch of little ass kids. To not drink is control. Those little fucks don't have it. Drinking is stupid, I regret it. You are very adult for not going with the scene. It's just a bunch of nonsense. If you don't want to drink, don't drink. Who cares about everyone else.

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  • kanachan

    you're normal. don't let peer pressure get to you! It's really good that you don't drink alcohol. Personally, I think there's nothing wrong with drinking, as long as you drink moderately and not everyday if possible. I am 19 and I don't drink too. well, maybe I have, once or twice but I've never gotten drunk. Mainly because I don't like alcohol at all, it leaves a bad taste on my mouth. My friends don't push me to drink because they know I don't like the taste and the bad feeling alcohol gives me. I could never understand why some people like to get drunk when afterwards they get the feeling of being dizzy and almost sick... Find friends who'd understand you too. Not every teenager has to drink.

    And I agree with this too: I think a great night out involves a nice restaurant dinner.

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    • Somone

      yeah totally i personally prefer hanging out with my friends.. not necesarelly in a restaurant.. but anywhere.. i dontt really LIKE going to clubs and all that but sometimes its what i have to do for seeing my friends outside of school more than once a year.. i mean i dont get boorred but i prefer just to nhang out and talk...

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  • footprints

    Don't worry I'm exactly the same :)

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  • ruralfrights

    What you have going for you, very few people have. That is character. I admire you very much for sticking to your guns with this one. Though it doesn't seem so at the time, people will come into your life and you are more likely than the drinking crowd to develop meaningful, life-long friendships. The reward will come your way. Guaranteed. Drinking buddies seem to disappear over time. Your are doing what they will realize they should have been doing ten or so years from now. I truly admire you. And having character is NOT the norm these days. This is one time to be glad that you are not normal! Best of luck.

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  • Schythl

    I'm also 19 and I'm teetotal. It's a poison in society's veins.

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  • Relaxandshoot

    I'm 19 and I don't drink. The most I will drink is like a sip of wine on special occasions. Its normal to me. p.s.I would include a good movie on that good night out.

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  • Crystalaura

    Agreed. I fucking hate alcohol and don't drink whatsoever. I can count the number of completely non-alcoholic individuals I know on one hand... Kind of sad.

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  • Jen118584

    Keep on keepin on. I'm the only one of my friends that never gets drunk. I have a couple drinks here and there but I refuse to get drunk. People question it, but whatever, I'm the one who will be feeling great next morning when they all feel like complete crap. My boyfriend has accepted it and now he barely ever gets drunk anymore either. I think he finally understands that the hangover and damage to your liver is just not worth it!

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  • silver76

    You are very wise indeed,stay well away from booze and drugs all they do is wreck your body,I over did it when I was younger and boy do I suffer for it now.These things are poisons and should at best be totaly avoided,if you want to live a full and healthy life that is.

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  • RedPanther1

    Dude, that's perfectly normal. If you don't like alcohol then you don't like it and that's that. People who don't accept that are just douchebags. I personally love alcohol, but it's just like not liking a certain food or drink. People who can't understand that are idiots.

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  • lessthanthree

    i don't like getting wasted to the point where you black out like most of my peers , i find if you drink less and stop when your tipsy it's not that bad ,

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  • Sarrie

    ALright!!!
    I think that that is awesome, mate.
    Alcohol makes you act like an idiot, and you're way better off without it. :D

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  • Somone

    u know noone REALLY likes to geet drunk.. there's a reason why they all drop it at some point.. i mean of course they enjoy it for a while but that's it! so u just got ahead of ur self!

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  • thundercat

    Hey, g'day mate!
    You do so well. Keep on it.
    Don't let drongos push you into the stubbies.

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      Onya, really, mate.

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  • Somone

    ittotall normal andadmirable! if udont like it greatits ur taste u cant help it! if u do but u dont want to get like drunk or anything even better!!because honestly i dont see the need of getting drunk and all
    and ur friends are shit if they stop inviting u just cause u drink i mean they can hang out with u even if u r sobber!!
    and belive me u r not the only one who doesnt drink im 17 and i dont drink.. i dont like the taste but i also find kinda stupid (im ok with it most of my friend drink but i just dont uderstand it).. but they dont stop inviting me for that.. and yes maybe sometimes they try to convince me of taking a zip and sometimes i do so that they stop .. but they dont presure me.. they just want me to try it for some reason... and they never tried to get me drunk..
    but anyway its totally normal i have a couple of friends who dont drink either... and others who maybe got drunk once or twice u know just for trying it... so its absolutelly normal.. ( i belive i wrote too much sorry!)

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