No sex for 7 long years :(

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So I'm a girl and I lost my V card when I was 18 with a friend.. Then I had sex once.. Then nothing for 7 years :(

It's not that I didn^'t want to have sex, it's just that I don't like one night stand and I didn't find a bf ...

I still have a high sex drive, I masturbate and have sex toys so it's not that I don't like it. It's just = opportunities.

SO now I've decided to be less shy and went on a dating app, I met a nice guy. But he is really experimented and a bit kinky, I'm scared that my situation would scare him away

Do you think he would care or not about my past sex life ?

If I was the guy I would care 19
If I was the guy I wouldn't care 87
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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    I really don't see it of any importance. I'm not sure it would even come up in the early stages of a relationship.
    I certainly wouldn't ask a girl about her sexual history early on.
    Just let things progress at their own pace and don't volunteer any of that info up front. No guy worth your being with, is going to ask or care.

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  • xfg13
    8 years ago

    You're a piece of meat. Why would he care about your personal history?

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  • Livellovelife
    8 years ago

    He will like it

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  • dallas22
    8 years ago

    All he cares about is shoving his cock and nuts in your dirty asshole and your bloody cunt.

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    We're not him so we wouldn't know. Everyone's different.

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  • KingTermite
    8 years ago

    Is he a scientist? Or the subject? Just how did he get "experimented"?

    All seriousness, for some stupid reason many men think they want a less experienced partner, so likely not a problem. For me, it wouldn't be a plus because I like really good sex and inexperienced women normally aren't much fun. So, personally, it would take convincing for me, but I'm far from average. A lot of guys think they want virgins, but that's a pretty misguided wish, IMO.

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    • 53739
      8 years ago

      thats ridiculous. there is more to a relationship than sex. if she loves me then I don't care whether she is a virgin or experienced. and I appreciate love more when she is a virgin because it shows that she trusts me enough to put herself out there, it's sweet. and sex isn't about how good you are at it, it's about how important it is to you. there's a difference between a porn star being very good at what she does and filming a scene like a professional with no emotions involved, and two people who deeply love and care about each other trying to get intimate and have sex, being teasing and playful and sweetly awkward, but enjoying the moment to the fullest, feeling intense passion in an atmosphere of mutual respect.

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      • KingTermite
        8 years ago

        Are you the OP, or just deeply invested in your personal view of intimacy?

        In my experience, there's a lot to be said for being good at giving another pleasure, I'll take that all day long next to your "sweet awkwardness". I've had my share of women and girls without experience and it's been hands down the worst sex I've ever had. A woman that knows what she wants from experience is much, much more fun. You can reach heights with someone that knows what they're doing that you can't even imagine with someone inexperienced or worse, a virgin.

        But hey, YMMV. Do what you like and enjoy your life the way you want to, it's the only one you get.

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  • TerenceTheTiger
    8 years ago

    I actually prefer a woman who hasn't had too many partners, they're always comparing to exes!

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