No one care about me even my parents ...

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im a gay boy but my family does not know about it, i have been a realy good child for them i have never make them mad or angry and they always tell me i love you honey , sweetheart ... but now its 1 year im living out of country and my parents called me only 5 times,sometimes my boss asks how comes a parents doesnt call you and they dont care about you and i feel shy ... and realy its shame.
in my country (reverence)is more important then anything ( child , family , money , even food ...) and the reason that i had to leave my country because i also wont them to lose their reverence in the town or in our family cos if my parents find out that im gay they will kill me to keep the reverence
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my name is ali im from iran - tehran (living in istanbul)

its normal and all the parents are the same 3
when i got what i want then i´ll take revange 1
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  • JessMe89
    8 years ago

    You are loved! Sending great spirits your way! I'm sure your an amazing person! Gay or not! What you do behind close does should t matter you should love who you want and your family should love you no matter what! Great luck in life!

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    • ali.dralex
      8 years ago

      this is the best answer thank you so much <3

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      • JessMe89
        8 years ago

        Most welcome

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    If they kill you then who will be sad...NO ONE!! so what is the problem?

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  • whattt
    8 years ago

    And I fully support you, who you love shouldn't have any say in what you're parents think of you, in the end you're still a wonderful person.

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    • ali.dralex
      8 years ago

      thank youuu so much i have felt your words with my heart and makes my day cool

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  • whattt
    8 years ago

    Hey just because they don't call doesn't mean they don't love you. It must be hard for them to have you not there, and it might be hard for them to call you. Maybe call them, i'm sure it would be a nice suprise. :)

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  • lightandlove
    8 years ago

    I am ok with you not liking what i said. but it is bullshit what you say about our sexuality controlling us. We are in charge of our actions 100%. All of them. And i am sure you can find a way to call your parents if you really wanted to.

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    • ali.dralex
      8 years ago

      i have called them every weeks i use all of my money to call them but they never call me even every months

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  • lightandlove
    8 years ago

    I think that its ok for your parents not to call you as maybe they want to give you freedom and may I ask you why you wait for them to call and dont call yourself? I had the same as I went to uni in another city and we did not talk often, but I went home for holidays cos I wanted to see them and they were always happy to see me. Also, it sounds like you think they might suspect about your orientation? If this is such a problem I would just disapere from their lives as this might be the best solution for all of you... It does not mean that they stopped loving you, but they are also not obliged to approve everything you do in life. I think in your case (if I were muslim and not attracted to the opposite sex) i would just stay away from sex all together and focus on something else in life ;)

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    • ali.dralex
      8 years ago

      i think you are wrong i have left them because i care for them and the second is im not in another city im in another country and so far from them that i cant visit them anymore cos im a refugee and here in turkey is war everywhere people make bombs and my life is not sex its about the sexuality situation that no one can control it cos its normal you know this the bullshit replay that i have every readed ...

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      • lightandlove
        8 years ago

        ok. it is your choice not to like what I said. but why can't you call them yourself? also, I disagree with the view that we are controlled by our sexuality. This is bullshit. We are in charge of who we become including our sexuality. But, saying this I agree that we cannot choose who we fall in love with. This is a totally different matter. But we are in charge of our actions. The way we act in life is totally our choice.

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  • Biggirlbanger
    8 years ago

    YOU ARE THEIR SON NO MATTER WHAT

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