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Is it normal I don't ever want to have kids (get pregnant), simply because I don't want to lose my HOT, sexy, tight body? This probably sounds selfish, but I want to remind hot. Normal??
Its perfectly normal not to want kids BUT... your reason is stupid. Why?? Because you are gonna lose you're "sexy" body even if you don't have kids at all.... that's why.
There are more reasons than not wanting to lose my body, but I don't want kids either.
well sweetie it's in the genes-- I wear venus bathing suits and look damn better than most. I work out with weights and I'm 48 yrs old and still get hit on by 20 something guys---I have two wonderful sons probably your age and they are my world. I rarely date, it's too hard good will hunting when so many men just want sex.. Looks are only skin deep like a book --- never judge it by the cover.. one day you might want kids but it's an unselfish love and some would be better off not having any. your choice
You are EXACTLY like me! I love my body, and I don't want any baby to mess it up with flab and stretch marks, I'd rather go adopt. I think your normal! and Right on!
But dear me, you are forgetting one thing, Can you assure me , rather yourself, will you maintain this sexy body of yours if you dont get pregnant till your 30years, 40 years, 50 years. Come on dear, be realistinc. you know something, when you get a child, you will understand how much in life you have missed out.
ageing or loosing your beauty is a normal earthly process and neither pregnancy nor anything for that matter can make you loose your beauty.
have a nice day buddy
If I were a woman, I'd never have children. They usually gotta stitch ur vag up afterward. And that's if u don't end up with stretch marks and a c section and tons of extra flabby skin just to have an always open mouth to shovel $ into? Nnnnaaaahh. I'll adopt tyvm
I agree with "Budthewise". Can't believe how many of the people who have responded here are so shallow, immature, and self centered. It's her decision whether or not she has any children......but....I would venture to say that if she accidentally gets pregnant, the moment she looks upon her baby's face, she will not be concerned with her figure.
And Heaven help us when people put "looks" above everything else. If you do that, you'll probably end up with a big loser who is abusive, sarcastic, and most likely unfaithful. Personality, morals and basic beliefs are much more important!
its not strange to not want kids and keep your figure but keep in mind that everyone will eventually get old and wrinkly.
Even if you ate healthy, exercised your entire life, even had surgery to make you look younger time will catch up to you and leave you wrinkly and old and frail.
Plus you'll either end up with a horrific C-section scar or your vag all stretched out from natural birth. Some people just don't have the maternal instinct.
Hot or not, kids or not, your body will age and change no matter what. Even without any kids you can't keep your body looking as if you were 20 for the rest of your life!
Definitely. If my girlfriend ever wanted to get pregnant, I would not agree because she is HOT.
Can you Assure me or even yourself, that you will be as sexy as now when you turn 30 yrs, 40 yrs 50 yrs. Pregnancy is a status or a promotion from being a girl, you become promoted to being a Mother. You were a kid, then a matured girl. now you have to work for higher rank as a mother. Afterall, if you dont become a mother, you think you are going to be sexy till you die. it is an imagination only. Your mind should be beautiful more than your body my dear.take care
Having children is a very beautiful thing. And maybe your dream will come true and when you do want them you won't be able to and hey at least you will still have a tight body. lol
It's up to you if you dont want to give up your body to have kids then don't. Pregnancy does mess up your body a bit. I personally think it was worth it my son means the world to me. Some people are not very maternal it's nothing to be ashamed of.
What was the point of this post again? Besides anonymously seeking compliments from strangers?
Yeah, seems like I"m always on your side. I got the same opinion from here. I also got a vibe of someone who thinks she deserves to get by on looks and wants to flaunt a decent body for attention at the expense of not developing any inter beauty at all.
All in all, I am willing to bet she is rather stuck up and wouldn't talk to a great but ugly guy but would hop on whichever loser who will treat her like crap but "hot".
so its like you just are'nt where you wanna be in life and don't want to take chances. right?
there are several ways to keep your body fit after pregnancy, the only woman i know who didnt have kids because she didnt wanna "lose her figure" is short and stumpy and looks like a frog, so im not even sure youre that hot... but do the world a favor and dont have kids
If there only more women in this world who thought like you this would be a great place! Looks are number one personality is number two and financial stability is number three. If you just have number one then GOD I just wanna get drunk and tap that....
Ha Ha, you know my wife is the same way, but she always say it's better to have them when you're young because the younger you are the easier it is for your body to bounce back. When you get old it's going to be harder for you to shed the pounds. Just food for thought.
Second it.
My fiance is a cow (not literally, sick fuck.) and I truly wish she was how you described yourself. However, I am willing to bet your a guy. If your not a guy, probably a selfish girl who thinks the world owes you for something lame.
Either way, you probably don't have a decent personality to back your looks up with.
Hahahaahahahahahahahaha!
Anyway, to answer the OP - do whatever makes you happy! No-one's forcing you to have kids and if you want to enjoy a (by your word) hot, sexy, tight body, then I say hell yeah go on and enjoy it for as long as you want.
Having kids is a huge commitment physically as well as emotionally and you shouldn't feel obliged to do it if you don't want to. You may regret it or you may not, but it's your choice as to what you do with your life and your body. The way you feel is probably quite normal too.
Shallow my ass. I am probably the most down to earth person on this site. I don't think high of myself and I bust my ass to make ends meet. However, I look down upon those who think highly upon themselves or think looks are everything.
Thanks for showing us who the author is of this one.