No boy seems to be attracted to me. is it normal?

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No trolls please. Weell...I've just turned 18 but I've never had a boyfriend and I feel like shit about this. I can't understand why. I know that I looked like a mess until a few years ago, and this, believe me, is enough to explain that situation. But now...I take care of myself. A lot. Now I know I'm not ugly, I also get some compliments about my looks without having to dress and behave like a total slut. I'm not even dumb, or a bitch. I just like to tease people sometimes, but definitely not as a bitch. But no boy likes me and I wonder why. This makes me feel bad. Ok there were let's say a couple people who had a little little crush on me. But 1) it vanished quickly 2) they didn't know me 3) I was not interested in them anyway.
I really need to know how to get out of this situation. I don't want to have to go to the disco to find myself someone, I want a nice & normal boy. Give me some advice, because I'm starting to think I'll be a total fail in life and never get a boyfriend and etc. etc. all these crappy things. Thanks.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    Some boys may like you and you don't know it. I suggest that, when you like a boy, either ask him out directly or make it very clear to him that you like him. Many guys won't make a move unless they think they have a chance.

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  • JustDave
    12 years ago

    Pursue areas of interest to yourself, hobbies, pastimes, activities,volunteer work, whatever. You will develop yourself as a person and may meet someone who shares your interests.

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