Nis it normal that girls see me as more of a friend than a boyfriend

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I am a 18 year old boy and ever since i can remember i have always been friends with girls. I love girls. I get along with them soo much more. I dont get along as well with guys for some reason. Ill talk to them but i never get close to them. I do have one close guy friend but he is gay so it doesn't really count. Anyway now because ive been so close everytime i start getting interested in any girl, they see as more of a friend. They'll kiss me on the cheek but not on the lips and im a little aggravated. Has anyone else been in a similar situation?

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  • Chayce
    12 years ago

    Start being an ass.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Does that seriously get you places? You are not the first person who has told me something like that lol

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      • ashm94
        10 years ago

        It definitely works. A lot of girls, whether they realize it or not, are attracted to cockiness and sometimes, even when a guy treats her like shit. Trust me, I'm a girl. I never think I'm into douchebags, but I sure as hell always end up with them.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Better to be friends first before diving into a relationship. Anyway, if your female friends think you are really nice they will recommend you to their other friends. Tell them you'd like to go out with someone, and get them to matchmake for you.

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  • dredge20
    12 years ago

    Well, in this kind of relationship, it sounds like, your the girl's bitch, thats why the guys dont come near you, its fairly common.
    To fix this just be a little more of an asshole, talk about dirty shit, stuff guys talk about, of course back off of the girls friends zone a little bit to get some guy friends.

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  • jesusj
    12 years ago

    I thought I would just say this: you're lucky you even get a kiss on the cheek. I am friends with a couple girls and none of them even hug me. Only one girl hugged me.
    Some people have it worse than you, you know.

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  • Twarrior
    12 years ago

    Ummmmmmmmm...... Sounds like your going after the wrong sex my friend.

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  • 41ph4m413
    12 years ago

    It's because you're a beta.

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  • Treez
    12 years ago

    As a Chinese philosopher would say "you have good sex"

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    It's because they mostly want something they don't already have. By being their friends, the charm of the hunt as been taken away in a sense.

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  • Oli
    12 years ago

    Just because he's gay doesn't mean he suddenly turned into a girl. It does count.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Well im not saying he's a girl it's just it kind of feels uncomfortable talking to him about girls. He also isnt a very personal type of guy so even if i wanted an opinion he wouldnt give it to me. Serious conversations aren't his forte.

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