Nightmares over no calls?

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Hey everyone, I'm 26 years old and my girlfriend and I have been together for a year and 10 months we are very serious about our relationship, but she's currently in NY for school and I'm in Massachusetts. Well we talk on the phone as much as we can. but lately the last 5 days she hasn't called me. this has happened before but never this long, more like 2 days because of a busy schedule.

But the first day I was irritated, the second day I was depressed, the 3rd, 4th and 5th day I been extremely depressed and every time I go to sleep I keep having nightmares about things that has to do with my relationship.

For example, the latest I could remember I talked to her sister, and ask her why she hasn't been ignoring me and her sister replies, I think someone bad has taken over her. I was like wtf?

Or I would dream of catching her cheating on me, or calling her and her saying she doesn't want to be with me.

on the previous incidents where she hasn't called me I talked to her about how it makes me feel but she comforts me and tells me not to worry, she loves me always but I can't seem to stop these nightmares.

Any help?

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  • LetsLeadNotFollow
    13 years ago

    I would be freaking out too!!!!

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  • treehugga
    14 years ago

    i always have these nightmares when something like this is happenin in my life and i can't stop thinking about it!I think that long distance is far 2difficult... it would be 4 me and if my bf didnt contact me 4 5days id deffo think they were cheatin n me or gone off me!! fuck them!if someone doesn't care enough about you to contact you in 5days then you shouldn't bother with them!ur supposed 2 be her boyfriend..not an aquaintane!

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  • PoeticDreamer
    14 years ago

    Yeah, very similar things have happened to me when a friend hasn't been in touch and I've been worried. I don't see anything weird about it, if you're worried you're worried and it will manifest in your dreams. While waiting for someone to contact me I've had dreams where they've been really cold towards me or just not noticed I was there, like I was completely invisible... that was a scary one. It turned out to be okay, though. I hope everything is okay and you can learn not to worry so much x

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  • vanadan
    14 years ago

    calm down.. she just probably doesn't realize you would make of a few silent days such a big deal.. and a relationship over distance is in a way exhausting, or so i experienced... and if there is really something into it, you probably can do nothing about it so why worry..

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  • Myind
    14 years ago

    maybe her phone is broken.. but doesnt she has any friends that you can call?

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