Never shave or shower?

Leave her alone.

Shaving isn't a necessary thing, it's more of a self comfort thing. She obviously doesn't care what other people think of her so why should you?!?

Lol Its her own decision. You cant force people to do things against thier will.

Is she a water phobe of something

It sounds like she needs to shower more, but the shaving part, that's her business. I mean, she can't possibly wear skirts and shorts everyday all year, right? Well, I guess it depends how warm it is by you. But I live in New York, and it's warm for only a short period of time. Then I'm pretty much freezing my arse off the rest of the time.

Sounds like there may be another reason for her actions. (By her water, she may mean no hot water system or something)

Well first of all shaving legs is NOT a hygiene issue.

If it was then you'd shave your head vs washing your hair.

as for why she doesn't shower... perhaps it is a water issue.
And she just may turn down your offer of a shower because of pride... and because she may find the constant offers condescending.

I would suggest leaving her alone.

ew what a nasty ass skank bitch.

No, it isn't normal. Especially if it's starting to affect others. Perhaps you should talk to the school/college counsellor about it, so that she can talk to her about it?

'The water' isn't an excuse, because she could well have used your friends shower, like you said. Sounds to me like there might be some other problem. Regardless, a professional should deal with it.

There was a lady from Australia
who painted her arse like a Dahlia
the looks were quite nice
the colours were quite bright
BUTT the smell was a helluva failure!

Do you not see where this might be a terribly embarassing situation for her? It sounds like this is new for her. Do you know what her home situation is like? Don't you think that she is aware of how bad she smells? If you claim to be her friend and are saying stuff like this, can you imagine what non-friends are saying to her? Are you even dimly aware of how heartless and bitchy girls can be to other girls? Maybe instead of being rude, maybe try to be her friend and try to find out what is going on in her life.

Shaving is optional i shave my legs frquently even during the winter it makes me feel clean amd smooth. Not showering there maybe something she isnt tellin you? With me femine hygene is extremly important i cant stand being dirty or sticky or sweaty but its also a health issue try talkig to her about it and see whats goin on.

Nooooo, I mean the shaving, big deal; guys don't shave their legs, why should women have to?

But the shower thing... ew. I'm sorry but that girl is just GROSS, not to mention she's cruising for some MAJOR infections. I wouldn't want to sit next to her, I wouldn't want to share a bus with her, I wouldn't want to walk PAST her.

Tell her to shower up, every DAY, or go live in the Sahara or something where nobody will ever have to SMELL her.

Normal to not shave.

Not normal to not shower, people shouldn't stink it smells bad for a reason, stinky smell is the bodies natural way of telling you to clean up.

@ any one time we have a million bacteria cells per cm of skin and about 75% that bacteria is good. Which is which shower gel is ordered over soap by the medical professionals because shower gel only removes the bad bacteria. Australian health standards says we should shower at least once every two days. So

What kind if excuse is it to blame the water for not washing? Does she live in Somalia?

Let people talk about her! your doing the rite thing by telling And if she refusers to listen that's there own fault people will talk!

Shaving the legs is less of a problem, the showering is. Tell her to get the bathroom fixed or suggest deodryant and until then leave her alone about the issue, she probably wouldn't accept your offer because she feels embarassed.

not shaving legs is ok, i hardly ever shave mine cos i always wear jeans :) but not showering is gross! people should shower every day or every two days- even if i did have a water issue i would shower at a friends. you could try talking to her, without being judgemental. just say your worried about her health and higiene.

Ew. Just ew. That is so unhygienic, she could get severely ill because of the germs festering on her skin and in her hair.