Never had sex or even been kissed

I'm 19 about to enter my second year of college, and i've never been kissed or even had sex, i can talk to girls no problem after i initially get to know them, i'm shy at first with all people, but when the thoughts of going after one of the girls even enters my head, i can't follow through. I fear getting rejected, alot, so it it normal, my situation that is?

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84% Normal
Based on 108 votes (91 yes)
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  • alv1592

    of course it's normal. i'm 18 and still a virgin, and never even had a serious bf. not everything happens before you're a certain age..it just doesn't.

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  • HazelTheSolemnVamp

    Naww. Of course it is normal. -^-^- I'm shy too >-< But what is life without it's adventures? Love is a wonderful thing that would be awful to never feel. And you can't expect any adventure to come if you're cowering in the shadows. I'm 4 years younger than you and am pretty much in the same situation. I never give things a try because I'm too scared of how things could turn out. But, I bet, if we both go out there and speak our hearts then we'll do absoloutely fine. SO you go for it dude ;]

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  • Rennox

    I don't see how it isn't normal. I'm also 19 and in college, and I know tons of people who are afraid of being rejected, both guys and girls. It's one of those things where you just got to go for it, whether or not you're nervous about getting rejected, you know?

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  • steph19913

    Yes it is fine and don't listen to that chocolate girl she's probably just a nasty whore and you don't wanna follow down in her steps anyways

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  • red_gal_85

    No worries when the right person comes along everything will just kinda happen on its own

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  • TieDiedSuperstar

    I've noticed it's fairly common these days for some men, usually those devoted to learning, to get a girlfriend until their mid-20's. In teenage years there is a pool of guys who are active, and smaller pool of females who end up with boyfriend after boyfriend (see above).

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  • No Your Not Normal At All. No Im Just Kidding. Lots Of People Have The Same Problem But This Is My Advice To You Is This "The Biggest Risk In Life Is Not Taking A Risk". Yeah Sure You Might Get Turned Because This Is Your First Time. But Your Not Alone Tell Some Of Your Friends To Bring Their Date And Go To A Restaurant Together So It's Easier To Talk And Have A Good Time. Then Go To A Theme Park Or Somewhere Fun. But Make Sure To Give Your Date Lots Of Attention. Theres Tons Of Girls Out There Not All Of Them Are Going To Say Yes And Not All Of Them Are Going To Say No. Plus Whats There To Loose But An Opportunity. And Protection Never Hurt Anyone. F*cking A!!!

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  • Chill_Pill

    You are normal. Please just listen to yourself and then you will see the correct time to follow through. I don't know why we always need to rush these types of encounters. You are not abnormal whatsoever. Take Care!

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  • dalesite

    I'm 20 years old and I've never been kissed nor have I ever had sex. I've never even been on a real date.

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  • rose87

    its normal and great, dont be ashamed of yourself, it a good thing...

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  • loopoo

    I am 19, but a girl and have also never kissed anyone or had sex. Don't rush or worry about it, enjoy yourself and the right person will come along.

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  • HugeDong87

    Susan Boyle is old and she's never been kissed.

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  • teebaby

    Maybe try drinking getting out there.
    college partys are thee shiiiiiit :)

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  • Ch0c0latez

    No man it isn´t normal no haven´t been kissed! I am 17 and been kissed 29 times by different boys!

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    • RachelFace

      You keep count of how many times you were kissed?

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    • DaiMounji873

      Look, you're either a slut or a liar, possibly the latter. Goodybe, slutliar.

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