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I'm a girl in high school and I've never had a boyfriend, or even kissed a guy. Guys have liked me but they were all just assholes who wanted sex. I'm pretty, I'm even called hot, and there isn't anything majorly bad about my personality, so is it normal that I have yet to have my first boyfriend?
i ask guys out but im (ALWAYS) (REJECTED) im not to happy about :( i feel disapointed in myself):
True that!
I've done it a couple times. Rejection does hurt but it's better knowing if someone likes you or not after getting to know them for while that is though. Everybody goes through it. :)
It shouldn't have to be men all the time. Although I swear I can be just like a guy at times too, can't even tell if he likes me or not even if it might of been a strong signal. lol
But I've lost the thought of even being in a relationship for a while just needed to take care of myself better and get school work done. :)
Plus OP I'm in college and haven't yet had a boyfriend... do I care, not right now. Stop your worrying, you'll eventually find someone just like how I know I will... be patient.
And what disthing said there are too many of the same topics over and over and over and over and over again.
I have to say, you sound like a really awesome girl to hang out with. Like Korra from Legend of Korra, I have no idea if you watch that show or not. Anyways, I'm glad that there are some girls out there who actually put themselves in a guy's shoes and does the asking out. You really shouldn't be single.
Ha. Thanks, but I've never seen that show actually.
You know, you would think that but it really is my choice right now, I ran into quite a few assholes in my past and guys that go for bitches instead, which I didn't get. Not that I'm trying to deal with the past right now but I just want to get through my last quarter of school and then will think about dating. Plus I'm still putting my family ahead, they do mean a lot to me. :)
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I'm 19 and I haven't even had a proper kiss yet. most of my friends didn't even get partners until they left school.
It's not that great.. Infact I'd say I personally prefer the single life. Don't rush too be in a relationship, it will happen (: x
Most guys are assholes in high school. I never pursued girls specifically for sex, I don't understand that mentality. But I always knew I was the minority there.
all the boy friends i had were either playing me or they were gay:( but im still lookin i got another 13 years to go to find love some were:) and hopefully i get there and you get there:)
It's ok n perfectly normal to be single n waiting to fall in love and to be cautious about whom u fall in love and make sure he is not a jerk
You're in highschool, most of the guys are looking for a piece of ass! There are a few good ones, but most of them need a few years to grow up before they are relationship material. I was that way for sure!
Me neither. But then again, I'm a straight male.
In all seriousness though, it's not a huge deal. Don't seek out a relationship just for the sake of having one. I've had two girlfriends in my life so far, and I'm glad that my romantic history isn't littered with two-week disasters and hasty decisions. And you're in high school, for fuck's sake. It's normal. Don't worry about it.
I know plenty of women like you. they always end up being bitter, old and depressed. You are not young and desirable forever.
Glad there are still smart girls like you in the world! Do NOT waste your time with douche bags, all they will do is break your heart and cause wasted time that could have spent in better ways. Wait for that right guy, it will be worth it and will be worth the wait, just do not let him pass by.
Don't feel rushed to get a boy friend. It's totally normal. I am the same way lol
3rd year university student here, never had a boyfriend, not bad looking either, i have time, guys are meet are arseholes by all account, not under this illusion that prince coming to sweep me off my feet but when i do meet that awesome guy then why the hell not. don't feel rushed okay :)