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Is it normal that never really been out with friends,ever been on a date, not really atracted to anyone,and never asked out a girl or have been asked out, sometimes i care sometimes i dont, and should i bother trying 4 any of thies (male 20) would prefer answers from girls
Of course you should bother! What kind of question is that!? Get out there and live life. 20 is YOUNG. Start by getting some exercise and spending some time outdoors. Then you'll feel better about yourself and be more prepared for interactions with girls. Girls like tall dudes, so you've got that going for you :) Besides, I'm willing to bet that you sometimes convince yourself that you don't care when you actually really do. You should care. Life is short and shouldn't be spent indoors alone!
I agree with 405060....Sort of.
While I agree that you should do essentially whatever you want, I believe it is not normal that you have never been on a date and that you don't go out with friends.
Even the most anti-social of people (me, for example!) go out with friends and on dates.
Even I know that a label like 'normal' is shallow, I also know that normal it is a fact. Certain things are normal, others aren't.
I'd somewhat disagree with part of what you said. Yeah I think the vast majority of people have friends that they go and do things with from time-to-time. However I don't think that applies as much to dating.
You are only 20. So, you've definitely time to get into things. Definitely try to make some friends that you can hang out with. I cannot give any advice on the dating part as I've never been on a date myself.
Don't listen to anyone. Everyone is different. I have never done anything (not by choice though)
^^^ The friends you do have, yes you should be going out places & seeing new things.
Ok so because someones fat, they dont deserve to have friends, go places, & date? Some people are so ignorant!!! 6'0" & 215-220 is overweight, but not horribly. If youre asking this question, then it MUST be bothering you. You definitely need to get out there & make friends. You can always make friends with people who have similar interests. Doesnt mean you have to become some super outgoing, tanned up, beef headed party guy. After you make some friends, dating will come easily...because your options open up. Your friends have friends...& so on. Easiest places to meet people: school & work. Dont have a job, its about time you get one!
Ignore nasty comments!! When u feel it's the right time and u meet the right girl u will just know. Go out with friends though coz it's fun!
close im kinda fat(im about 215-220lb but im 6ft tall) and i have pale skin not pink lol