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CAN THIS BE NORMAL, I DONT THINK SO I'M ALMOST TWENTY-ONE AND NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND, NO KISS OR SEX, I GET ASKED FOR MY NUMBER ALOT BUT NEVER INTRESTED IN THE PPL WHO ASK ME FOR IT AM I A FREAK CAUSE @ THE MO I CLASS MYSELF AS ONE,
This is normal, because you do write with uppercase letters. Nobody likes uppercase writers.
I think you should be proud of yourself because its damn rare to here of a virgin your age in our times,good for you!
Being a virgin is a good thing, guys like that. Perverts are a turned off by virgins i think.
from the sounds of it i would say that you have set your standers to high, lower them bit and put your self outthere.
my aunt was 25 when she first had a bf,her first kiss and first time at having sex.I know what your thinking, but its not as bad as it sounds she is still with him and shes 33 now and there very much in love with 2 kids, and personally I think thats cute she only had one love and will always have one love. She found the right guy for her.Her true love right away without having to look around. Hope that helped
It is not normal. But you have either set your standards to high or maybe your just waiting for the special person. My advise is to go get pissed and shag the first person you see.
well they should take this comment off this thing the oldest answer is like almost four years old i hope she has gotten over this fear and got fucked by now....damn guys she caint wait for all r thoughts...lol...just playin its cool if ur still a virgin....i hope ur not though...
maybe because you spelled been wrong? and because you type in all caps and don't know how to use proper grammar?
If you're bothered by it, which you are considering you're posting this, then try dating one.
No need to rush you have plenty of time.Society creates this in order for people to feel insecure. Kissing happens when it is right. Completely normal.
Being a virgin at 21, and specially never been kissed is not really a good sign. I can't believe that NONE of the guys that have asked your number was remotely attractive to you. You might have a social issue, fear, whatever, but that's not very normal.
You have to start giving people a chance, otherwise you are on the dangerous highway of getting to 40 and be still asking the same question.
does it matter do you think being sexually active is the best way to complete your life i mean how about you think this through stay a virgin and get married one day you need a matchmaker i advise you to just get out more to places were you meet lots of people hang out with friends and let them introduce you to there other firends you know stuff like that not know but while crazy stuff as a celibate person i say this
Ah, I forgot to add that I'm in the same boat. I'm eighteen and in college. Guys like me, and I like guys, but their never the same people. For some reason, types just don't mesh. I doubt anything will happen in the near future because all the boys I know have dubbed me "picky". But I meditate and clear my thoughts and get ready for a new day and new chances. It'll happen eventually.
Be proud of yourself. It means that you're not willing to be with a person just because everyone else wants you to be. And, by the time you do find someone, you'll know that you haven't dirtied yourself to get there. And you'll be free when the person comes up instead of with someone you don't really like.
I always feel better when I think about it this way. And don't listen to what other people say. They say that girls are like apples. All the best ones are at the top, but boys are just afraid to climb that high to get one, so they settle for the rotten ones at one the ground. So the girls see themselves and unwanted. But you just have to wait for someone to climb up and pick you.
im never properly attracted to most of the people i get with, but at the very least its a bit of practice to keep your edge.
Don't do it just to do it. Being a virgin is beautiful and the right person will come along. I did not meet my wife till I was 22.
Is there a law saying you have to kiss or have sex by 21??!! Sheeesh!Just go with whatever your heart and mind tells you,not cause there are some 12-16 year olds out there having sex and splashing it around in every convo they have (which is NOT normal!)In some cultures im aware that it seems normal but at the end of the day its YOUR life,and youre not in a race to please society or culture,unless youre really destroying some deep cultural issues!
And dont let anybody tease you about this.Youll be really sorry to have succumbed to those who tease you and youll only become like them in the end. If you find the right person at the right time and your consciounce is clear, then the balls on your side ;)
Good luck!
I totally get where you're coming from...i don't think it's about high standards or anything. Sometimes a girl just knows what she wants and isn't going to settle for less.
It is ok to be like you are, I mean even if society tells you otherwise. You are one of a kind and trust me, many guys would love to have a girl like you.
It isn't all that odd to still be a virgin, or never been kissed, or whatever. It doesn't matter if you're a virgin, or if you've been around the block.
Have you tried asking people you like instead of WAITING to be asked? You're not going to get any if you just stand around rejecting those who do pluck up the courage to ask for your number.
its normal...but hunnie you need a man....
but i think its cute.. for mah religion were not suppose to kiss or have sex before marriage soo hunnie your not the only one!!!
but hopefully you'll get that experience
you could be waiting for the right person or maybe your standards are a bit high?
21 is still young. Why are you so eager to be kissed, and have sex? So what if most of the other people had done it already? Why let it bother you? It is very normal, and moreover, you are still a PURE person, you are not stained. :)
Wait patiently for the right man that truly loves you to appear. These kind of things do not have to be rushed.
Join the Club :P bah i dont really care that much though ~_~ im just waiting to find someone i like rather than worrying about getting kissed ne? save it for someone special
Well I'm 18 and i never kissed anyone or had sex and I have had many offers but it doesn't mean my standards are high, but maybe it is not my time... And don't worry cause I have a friend your age and they haven't done anything either..maybe it is not your time.. take it slow and don't lower your standards for anyone unless there ridiculous standards then you would need to change them...
u used caps. i wouldent use caps if i were you. caps are annoying. wtf. man i hate caps. dont do it ever. caps destroy brain cells man.
maaan.
leave your email address on here and I am sure you will get plenty of offers to kiss and fuck
Having sexual feelings for you sister is not unheard. Just dont make it a reality, and then have to suffer the consequences. Siblings are you own blood and sexual relationship with your own blood, i.e. sibling from the same same mother is bordering of uncivilized, animalistic, sex starved,nerd. Go out there and get your self a life and stop meddling around with sexy thoughts about your sister.