Never been with a girl

Kiddo (that's what I call my nephew that's your age), once it happens, you'll realize that none of what you are thinking is true. Sure, you don't have to do it to work through self esteem issues, but I once felt like you do now. I was with a 24 year old (lost my virginity) and have never been the same since. Seeing that I was attractive to someone and could satisfy them in that way (as well asbeing pretty damned satisfied myself) helped me change a lot of those negative, worthless thoughts. And when it happens, if your like me, you will make up quickly for lost time!!! Be patient. Good luck!!!

Mann I would love to meet you guys. I think that is the most attractive thing, when a guy has not been with a lot of girls.. if any! My bf right now of 5 years had never had a girlfriend, just childhood crushes. I love it. I never have to worry about him having stds.. plus it seems that the guys who havent been with a lot of girls appreciate them more!

Hey man, it's normal. I'm a senior in high school too but haven't dated yet. It's really up to you to decide when is the right time for a relationship.

Oh, friend i can feel that very close to me,,

i am 25yrs old and never had a girlfriend still.

every time i see a girl who looks beautiful to my eyes, my heart says to me "you stupid you are not enough to her" beauty or something else..

what a hurting feeling it is??? All my friends around of my age have girlfriends not only one but 2 or 3 girlfriends each...

i always feel bad when i think about it..

Actually i still had no answer for that,, what is really wrong with me????

but mainly i am scared of girls that is what i had learned from my past years...

i am still single without a girlfriend..

your's friendly,

divx99

If they truly have feelings for you, and you have the same feelings, then if you treat her like the absolute most important person in the world(as long as your love continues) you will be good enough. If you treat your women like a queen, then not even if she herself tells you that your not good enough would you believe it.
Of course, you could always just ask her if your good enough, if she says no, then it is HER problem.

i have the same problem man...and i am currently on a patch to rediscover myself i am getting in shape eating better and finishing my education

i am sure that things will start looking up for me

so try what i did...put yourself on a path of rediscovery

i mean i used to want to be a gangster/thug i would carry around loaded guns and i never backed down from a fight...i didn't like my life i grew depressed and overweight

so i tried world of warcraft it made me even more depressed,i tried martial arts and couldn't stick with it,now i am training to become a police officer and every day i get a little closer to my goal,and no my final outcome may not be in law enforcement but at least i can say i tried and i will have a flat stomach to prove it :) so find your nitch and ride it all the way to self confidence :)

I know how you feel. I have the same thing going on and I thinks normal.

Most guys your age are overly confident, so I'd say not so normal. But for some advice, think about what it is about you that isn't good enough for them. Talk to your family/friends and determine if it really is something you should work on or if maybe you are just being unreasonable and hard on yourself. There's nothing wrong with self improvement, but that doesn't mean you aren't a great person how you are right now.