Never been kissed/had a boyfriend at 25yrs old.?

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So, i never kissed anyone before and I never had a boyfriend.
I'm not super hot, but I don't look dorky either. In high school i just never found anyone i really liked. And, the guys i liked in college well either they already had a girlfriend or liked someone else.
Like no one ever asked me out. I mean if I looked a certain way I understand, and since Ive been out of school I haven't been in situations where i could meet lots of guys.

I think when people look at me they usually think I'm still in high school and they think I look sweet.
Now, as I get older, all the guys who i do meet and really like also all have girlfriends. Plus, since Ive waited this long, Im a til marriage kinda girl- not really for religious reasons, but I like the idea of it and If i slept around i would worry about preggars scares or getting stds. Plus, if I ever broke up with someone it wouldnt hurt as much.

Ive never told anyone before. I mean even my roommate who is soooooo chubby has a boyfriend- grant it he isn't attractive either. But, still. I always see so many types of people matching up, but never me.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    9 years ago

    Don't feel bad, Op. I'm 26 and I've never had a boyfriend. Except in my case I'm bi and I stupidly spent my time exploring the female gender sexually when in actuality I find the male gender way more attractive. lol

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    9 years ago

    Could it be your so much of a cutie.
    You intimidate men wit dat booty?.

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    • CheyChey
      9 years ago

      HAHAHAHA

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    9 years ago

    Normal.

    There are people who chase after others in hopes of a relationship, and there are those who wait to be 'chased' after.

    People who are picky over the type of person they want chasing them usually take longer to find someone.

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    • RoseIsabella
      9 years ago

      It's good to be picky.
      ;-)

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  • jonn
    9 years ago

    the only difference between us is i'm a 21yo guy!

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  • Cicero20
    9 years ago

    Well technically no its not normal but there is nothing wrong with the fact you haven't been kissed yet - in fact I think its quite sweet.

    I think it has little to do with aesthetics although looks are a factor. To be honest though, I think beauty is a subjective thing.

    If I was to be blunt with you I would say that the reason you haven't been kissed (and some) as of yet is because you take it all a little too seriously. Just relax and take things as they come.

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  • regisphilbin
    9 years ago

    op you gots to learn to accept how ta be forever alone, its not so terrible like how ya think, trust me on this one k bye

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  • N227Anon
    9 years ago

    I'm a 20 year old guy in the same situation. I believe it's okay to wait for someone who fits the picture but that's for a meaningful relationship. Now I dont have any raging sexual desires but one must not confuse the two

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  • soccergal77
    9 years ago

    Thanks all. Yeah. i know everything takes time. And, its something I've never been focused on, but rather wanted. I know friends who can't go long period without having a boyfriend lol.Which personally not having a boyfriend never made me feel lonely. I don't find many people i generally like, then when I do they have a gf.haha. Like one guy is maybe 9 years older than me, which i would normally consider to old. But, he looks young and boyish for his age.haha, but he is just an amazing, sweet, down to earth guy, and cute. But, of course he has had a long term relationship. hahah one day. I know all things happen in time. I just wish it happens sooner.

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  • Dazed_dreamer
    9 years ago

    Ive been kissed on the cheek/forehead never a real kiss on the lips.
    Have a boy friend, never a boyfriend. (same boy as top)
    I feel ya, I see sooo many couples yet here I am, only the lonely haha..

    Dont worry the right guy will come along when you least expect it.

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