Never been kissed, and i'm 19. dont know what to think

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Heres some basic stuff to know, Im in college, 19, and I never belonged to a certain clique, I'm what you would call "Indy" or independent. What catches alot of people off guard, even in college, is the fact that I've never had a gf, never been kissed or even done the whole "lets hold hands" thing. I'm at the point to where I wonder if maybe this qualifies me as a social loser. Lol Im definitely an outgoing guy, I love the outdoors/sports, anime/manga, dream of traveling to Japan and even speak the language...well somewhat. Anyways, I dont know what to think even though I'm a little concerned that I havent even kissed a woman yet. Thoughts?

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Keep your love for Japanese amine a secret and you will be fine. Or maybe someday you will meet a girl who shares the same passions as you! Join a club or join a group!

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  • scarycherry
    14 years ago

    COMING FROM THE OPPOSITE END... Hi, I'm currently dating a guy that waas....well in your shoes just a little over a month ago. He is twenty, and a month ago had never had a girlfriend, a first kiss and or really anything. I just wanted to tell you that folks, just because you haven't found someone yet doesn't mean you won't. My boyfriend's problem is he was shy and didn't know how to really get the girl, he just expected that if a girl liked him she would make her feelings known. i met him and am very outgoing so when i made the first move it proved that i was willing to go the distance. if you wait, i promise that someone out there will find you, and love you exactly as you are, and that it just takes a little time. And for the record IT MAKES IT MORE SPECIAL IF YOU HAVEN'T DATED ANYONE YET. The fact that I am my boyfriends first everything has only strenghtened and made our relationship more special.

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    • W!ll777
      14 years ago

      Well thats a little interesting to know. Thanks for telling me, I guess I have the same problem as your bf but Im definitely trying to be even more social than before. Hope your relationship continues to go really well for both of you :D.

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  • nandemonai
    11 years ago

    one kiss = 1$

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  • Tobi-Uciha
    12 years ago

    Or find some one special, what ever

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  • Tobi-Uciha
    12 years ago

    Just fuck some hot chick already

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  • Ozzy
    12 years ago

    go to a random college party , get laid

    Done ✔

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  • Crunchy_taco
    13 years ago

    I think it's normal. I'm in the same situation as you except I'm 18. When you date someone you should go for someone who understands you.

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  • lovekills
    14 years ago

    theres always time...

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  • CrystalMoonlight
    14 years ago

    I've never had a boyfriend and never been kissed and I don't give a bleep. :P lol, yeah, I love anime and manga aswell and I'd love to go to japan. :D

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  • ThePudgyOne
    14 years ago

    I am 20 and I am in the same boat as you are. No, you are not a social loser. Relax, that special someone is somewhere out there. For all of us who are in the same shoes.

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  • raychull
    14 years ago

    I'm in the same boat as you, but I'm a girl. I always expected my first kiss or relationship to happen. I would always tell myself, "this year it will happen, I'm sure." but it still hasn't! it's frustrating because all my close friends, including those that are younger, are developing relationships, falling in love (or so they thing) and having sex. When I get close to someone and share this info with them they are surprised like you mentioned. I'm attractive, out going and easy to get along with I think I just haven't met a person I really want to be with. When I think about it like that it makes more sense. It's complicated too, they have to like you, you have to like them. there has to be physical attraction and emotional attraction... Maybe i just over think everything i do....!

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    • W!ll777
      14 years ago

      hahaha, i totally understand what you mean. Its definitely a somewhat "waiting" game if you think about it (not too much though). Its as if you have to accidentally stumble across the person you've been looking for. lmao, even most of my friends and siblings have had relationships with a girl/guy soooo your not the only one in that category...lol.

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  • KelticStripes
    14 years ago

    I wasn't kissed till I was 19.

    Perfectly normal.

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    • W!ll777
      14 years ago

      I dunno, it just seems like the most phenomenal thing to everyone I hang out with. Even my siblings think its a little out of the norm.

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      • KelticStripes
        14 years ago

        What? Not being kissed till 19+?

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  • Dreamer365
    14 years ago

    that's absolutely normal. Just, don't worry and be happy! :-)

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  • ComboBreaker
    14 years ago

    1)Hang with women that like same things you like.
    2)Woo them with skills or knowledge on relivent suject to their interests.
    3)???
    4)PROFIT!!!

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  • Mechastar
    14 years ago

    If that were me, I would risk the "slap in the face response" and kiss woman that walks lol. Is there any girl that has a crush on you that you don't like back? I suggest you kiss her because she is less likely to slap you than other girls. Another thing is you can pretend to be drunk or high lol

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  • BOYracer88
    14 years ago

    nah, youve just not found anyone special yet mate dont worry about it. try and make connections with girls at college to try and get started

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    • W!ll777
      14 years ago

      umm Im pretty sure I didnt write anything like "Make fun of me, thats better than advice". Lol just cause your having a shit day doesnt mean you can make fun of me, all I asked for was advice so dont be a chode. thanks

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  • Yazorin
    14 years ago

    anime nerd no wonder

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  • freakiestjosh
    14 years ago

    Its your taste, bud!

    you shud get into cool stuff like hardcore porn, bunny rabbits and piercings. Get your neck done or something and the women will be all over your ass.

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    • W!ll777
      14 years ago

      LMAO! Love the responses so far, "Pretend ur drunk or high" that made my day. Anyways i dont think Ill be doing that, its not in my nature. But thanks for the feedback so far.

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