Never been kissed :/

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Hi, so I am a 17 year old girl and after all these years I have never had a boyfriend or even been on a real date. I have had guys like me in the past and some of the times the feelings from my side have been mutual but it usually ends with us being friends or a fight, ha ha. I know I have no problem with my self image or my personality to where I am totally undate-able. It always starts off fine but then I end up screwing things up. I am just not the kind of person who settles. If there is something that I am not interested in then I am not going to pursue it anymore. I guess I just wanted to know if at my age should I have had one by now. Am I doing something wrong to where its just not me who isn't interested anymore but them too?

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  • hardcandy
    13 years ago

    You're 17. It's normal. I didn't have a real boyfriend until I was 20! Boys are stupid, you have better things to think about!

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    • loveya1394
      13 years ago

      Thank you for your advice, it just kind of been getting to me lately.

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      • Lil-wayne
        13 years ago

        Don't worry till after school. :)

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  • unsure106
    13 years ago

    I am so jealous of my best friend. I had lots of boyfriends as a teenager, and she had none. When we were 18 we went on a carribean cruise. Her fist kiss was with a powerful, intelligent, handsome man overlooking a carribean sunrise. Mine was on the back of school bus to someone i'd rather forget. Make it special!

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  • scrount
    11 years ago

    I don't see myself ever settling at all with anyone either but that doesn't mean you can't go out there and have a bit of fun, those are the sort of things to do for people less committed, you still like that person but you'd rather have some fun here and there rather than going into anything serious because sometimes that just leads to arguments. I know this because my parents didn't get on well in the end and it never lasted. Think of it as 20 years of marriage. For some people it works others it doesn't.

    You aren't at that stage in your life yet, just looking for your first kiss, and it will come to you, hopefully to the right guy that you like being with and not just some random guy because you feel the need to have your first kiss already. Whether it's an intelligent and handsome man or someone at the back of a bus, as long as you like the person then that's what matters and it will make your first kiss more meaningful.

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  • aliditta
    13 years ago

    ooh i had a sex or kissed lots of time when i was 18 and im 19 now and i had a accient where i burn my face which make me look older then my age like im 19 now and i look about 25 and no girl want to data me now or go out with me, i want to have sex or kiss a girl but no one want to be with me, i dont know what to do?

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  • cooldavid
    13 years ago

    Boys your age don't know how to appreciate a girl and make her want to kiss them. When you can date men, they will show you how to be kissed.

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