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Is it normal for guys to ask for your phone number? I barely have never had a guy start a conversation with me or ask for my phone number randomly. I don't think I am ugly. I just feel undesirable and I feel sad that a guy has never really seemed really interested in wanting to get to know me especially on a romantic level.
The guys that make it their mission to walk up to girls getting their numbers are normally the jerky douche types. Just my opinion, but the guys who you really would like to get to know are probably too shy to ask you. Maybe time for you to take action ;)
Guy here. Don't take it personal. Most guys are pussies when it comes to talking to women. You're so pretty and smell good. It messes with our minds.
Some guys have a problem asking a woman for her number. It's so easy now, though. Just ask them to put their number in your phone. I met a woman at the sports bar I go to last week, chatted a bit, we got along well (and I loved her killer, at least 2" long, gold nails), and at the end of the night, just said to her "Can you put your number in my phone, so we can talk again?". She did, and we have.
Not the best site to state that information as now you will have loads of weirdos chasing you for your number :P
I'm told guys like confident girls so maybe you should try starting the conversation ?
However I also believe well in my country this is happening where people don't communicate anymore and everyone my age are ignorant fuckers and look at me like I'm an alien. Unless I really look like an alien?! Meh
Do you live in America? I'm in America and I also feel like people don't communicate with each other too. I feel like people always have a wall up.
if aliens looked like you then I welcome our overlords from outer space ;3
Depends on age.
If you're in your teens or early twenties, men that age aren't looking for a woman who they are compatible with. They're looking for sex mostly. So to get the immediate attention you want, you'll need to dress slutty. However, it's not ideal since they're aiming to use you, rather than get to know you.
I say this a lot, but the best thing is to be yourself. You may not get asked out right away, but is better than having guys ask you out repeatedly for the wrong reasons.
So your entire post is about your phone number but still I am waiting for those digits
I have no idea how to present yourself if you are trying to attract a guy who wants a relationship with you or loves you, since that already brings in so many different factors.
If you are looking for more than a hook up, you are better off just asking a guy out or like to hang out under a friendship/undefined pretense and taking it from there.
If you are looking just to get asked for your number I've answered this many times. Attractiveness has barely anything to do with being approached. You are actually a step ahead of the game for not thinking you are ugly, most even very beautiful girls think they are because of media screwing with all of you.
So, the catch here is to be the kind of girl who gets approached isn't necessarily the kind of person you want to be morally. The "bad boy" being attractive stereotype is actually true for girls too, although it is slightly different. If you know a girl who gets asked for her number often pay attention to how she acts. In all likelihood she is somewhat boring, closed off, even a little mean. Clothing is also important, you want to wear tight clothes, and not really give off any individuality or creativity. There are certain hippy type girls who can pull this off, but if you don't fit that mold it doesn't work. It is a very specific game, guys will approach you if you look like a stereotypical "chick". It may seem counter-intuitive but when a girl "stands out" to a guy, it is because she is practically what everyone else looks like and then her unique qualities present themselves on their own. Don't make it harder for us. A nice, interesting girl, is the last thing any of us want to deal with if our goal is just to hook up with you.