Never around grown men.

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Dude, grown men creep me out. I have always felt so uncomfortable around grown men. Sometimes even scared, and i have nightmeres of being raped regularly. Im young, and have 4 times as many guy friends as girls... but theyre all my age or maybe 5 years older. i just hate being around grown men alone.
My mom is and has always been a single mom to avoid complications but we both still talk and vist my dad. i dont really like him because he doesnt seem like a dad. we get along i guess. but i dont really like him.

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  • Lonely2
    10 years ago

    you either had some actual negative experience......or

    Psychologist Joe says that you feel abandoned and unloved by your real father and in order to protect your ego and self esteem you have rationlized that he was bad in some way and this feeling has now spread that all " grown men" (ie men who remind me of my father) are bad or creeps....this feeling will eventually morph into all men are bad.Period....welcome to the Feminazi's.....

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  • BirdyMojo
    13 years ago

    Well, I have gone through all my life with no father either, and have MAJOR trust issues with men. I don't like them looking at me, touching me, or anything. But my eyes defend me, I give looks that kill, I mightaswell just tell them to back the heck off.. but yeah. It's normal. Not the recurrent rape dreams though. O_O

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    • Lonely2
      10 years ago

      Its not normal...normal for you maybe but not normal

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  • chaskins
    13 years ago

    I feel the same way. My mom was single, and she raised me my whole life. Some men give me the creeps. uh.

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  • SamuraiPeeper
    14 years ago

    I'm a guy and lived with my single mom for most of childhood and had a similar fear of adult men. I wasn't afraid of being raped, of course, but they did really scare me. Maybe it's a daddy-issue thing or something.

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    • Inoyoko
      14 years ago

      Same here. It's definitely a daddy issue. I didn't even know my dad, and I had all female teachers until I was in grade 6. No solid male role model can really mess a guy up.

      Or a girl, OP. If you are a girl. Kids need a solid male role model in their life!

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    it sounds like you are saying that you don't really have any responsible male adults in your life. no wonder you would feel the way you do.

    the rape dreams are disturbing though.

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