Nervousness

77% Normal
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Hello ,

I am curious because im not sure if i have social anxiety , but it is like i can socialize and speak without a problem , but sometimes i find myself getting a lil nervous like when maybe the laughter has stopped and the tone turns kinda serious or maybe even when the person suspects that I am now uncomfortable in the situation.Once I feel that theyve seen that, I then become almost completely uncofortable in the situation. I dont know if its because I'm so worried about whether the person has noticed if im uncofortable or what. I'd love and appreciate hearing some advice.

Thanks

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  • sparrowfeed
    14 years ago

    thats just an 'awkward silence'.... a perfectly normal social phenomenon.

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    • lilyoungster82
      12 years ago

      Ok , thanks. I just wasnt sure as I tht i was out of place or that i had a problem on my hands. Thanks for your feed back

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  • BRENDANMASONLUBARSKY
    12 years ago

    NOPEYOURAPERFECTLYNORMALNIGGALIKEME
    ..wait that's not saying much

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      lollllllll thats hillarious ur too funny!!!

      I wasnt sure as I was wondering you know when your communicating with someone and u sometimes give that like half smile or curtosy smile for ppl aka fake smile during communication and for example u kinda feel the person suspects it or u feel for example that all the sudden the smile wears off then the mood changes..I find myself getting nervous because of this..and its hard for me to not allow the person to see me being self conscious or not nervous..Hard to explain , but you think this is just self consciousness or what?

      Thanks for your reply

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Don't be self conscious then you'll feel ok with the awkwardness

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Ok thanks , I wasnt sure as I was wondering you know when your communicating with someone and u sometimes give that like half smile or curtosy smile for ppl aka fake smile during communication and for example u kinda feel the person suspects it or u feel for example that all the sudden the smile wears off then the mood changes..I find myself getting nervous because of this..and its hard for me to not allow the person to see me being self conscious or not nervous..Hard to explain , but you think this is just self consciousness or what?

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