Need help please read havent slept in days due to this

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okay here is my story I am in a long distance from the past 15 months we started dating when she was 16 and I was 20, it was some fling on the Internet we got to know each other and then when she came for her holidays here I asked her out and we started dating, it was very smooth initially but later the problems started. All sorts of issues that a long distance relationships have. We haven't met each other in 15 months. We got through all problems and issues. I was even planning to go and met her in her winter break. Her family is totally against our relationship but she stood up for us and dint listen to anything that her parents told her. Now when finally there were no issues and things were goin on real smooth all of sudden her family decides to take her away and change her school , probably drop her out of it and make her sit at home or get her engaged (arranged) when she is 18 send her to university and then get her married
I don't know that do I sound sane or not at this moment I haven't slept or ate anything properly in days because the very thought of not being with each other is disturbing enough and to add on to it the recent family issue ( she is turning 18 this jan) , tbh I decided of asking her for marriage when she is done with her university and by then I will also be able to provided a good future for her
Guys please me out I need some advice here sorry if guys couldn't understand much but I am seriously stressed out coz of all this

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    Don't start a long distance relationship and if you have then you should end it. You are going to propose to someone you have never lived with or spent a large amount of time with? Stop being a pathetic excuse of a man and go out and meet someone else.

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago

    You dont need to hurry into marriage I recommend living together for a little while first.
    I know a great couple who met online and eventually got married.

    Im not sure why you are worried about an arranged marrage because her parents cant do that...depending on where you live i guess? What country are you in?

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  • DubstepismyMJ
    9 years ago

    A Man in love can be quite a crazy one.

    Well i don't think you should he in such a hurry with marriage. There is no need to rush into that, thats a lifetime commitment.

    Yes long distance relationship can be difficult, but it is also a true testament of how strong a relationship is and can be.
    So if you guys truly love each other, there is no need to worry.

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