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So I met this guy online about 7 months ago. We got to the point of really liking each other. We met in person a few weeks ago and spent a weekend together. It was everything I hoped for and more I couldn't believe it. We wanted to have sex but I was on my period so to make up for the fact I gave him a blow job that lasted about an hour and a half. By his reaction during the entire thing I figured I was doing a good job. We left on a great note and almost immediately after I left he became very distant via text. I am super confused. He was very touchy with me the whole time I was there so I take it he's attracted to me, and we really connected a lot! So I thought??? I can't even imagine what went wrong? I need to know is it possible that some men just move on very quickly with no regards to the romantic build up and/or physical attraction? What is the deal? Or does he just happen to be very busy? Doesn't want to get emotionally attached to me possibly? I need to know if I should prepare myself to move on or stick around to see if he will bounce back?

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Why are you asking us? You should ask him.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Because I don't wanna suggest he should talk to me more by making this a topic of conversation. If he doesn't wanna talk to me I'm not gonna make him. I'm curious from a male's perspective what this might mean

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago

        There's no way anybody but him can answer your question. Different people have different reasons for doing things.
        The most important thing in any kind of relationship is open communication. If you cannot do that it's pointless anyways.

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  • donotmockme
    9 years ago

    I think it was the 1 and a half hour blow job that did you in.

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago

      I cannot imagine a guy minding that negatively.

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        Maybe OP's guy is one of those awful, hypocritical types who was just using her for sex. I dunno, it's just a thought and for OP's sake I hope I'm wrong, but ya never know. I see your point though.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Honestly you probably got too emotionally involved too quickly, being a guy myself I can say this can be a lil bit of a turnoff. It's nothing you can change about yourself and you shouldn't because I'd rather be like this than how I tend to be, which is emotionally distant. But at the same time you have to be realistic about romance too. That's the best advice I can give. Also,....

    How in fuck would either of you enjoyed an hour and half blow job??

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  • RainbowDischarge
    9 years ago

    What the.. That's a long blowjob!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      I LIKE TO DO IT

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  • tripw7
    9 years ago

    He's probably was a little sore from the experience of a 90 minute ordeal. However great, if you are not used to this, it will take a few days to get back to normal. I would certainly keep in very close touch and give him a couple weeks to see if wants to have another get-together. If he doesn't ask, you can initiate this action as well. I like what you did because you were not available for sex. Very nice.......

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    This 90 minute blow job sounds a bit odd. If he was really excited about you, he would have ejaculated in the first half hour. Something about the date went wrong in his head. Don't know, expectations, the interaction, clingyness or whatever. Sound like he was polite, gentlemanly, and wanted you to enjoy the weekend.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    You two just met up and spent a good bit of time together. Some guys like their space and don't want to experience too much of something constantly.

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  • cupcake_wants
    9 years ago

    Good thing you didn't give up the pussy to this asshole

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  • itellthetruth
    9 years ago

    Come on 90 minute blow job. I could cum like the times

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    9 years ago

    You guys are so right. I need to chill. I even know that myself but it has been hard for me because I like him so much. But hearing it from people other than myself reassures me. Thank you for everyone's input!!!!

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  • hawkeye5382
    9 years ago

    I agree with most of the guys on here girl u are attaching yourself to quickly with this guy. Give him his space for awhile. In the mean time take some time yourself and figure out what u want for yourself. Take the time to figure out where u stand and then if u feel that he is the man u want then call him and take things one day at a time and don't do it with a hour and a half blow job.

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