Need advice concerning an ex and a prospective girlfriend

This story starts several months ago. I was in a dysfunctional relationship, and began to have feelings for another girl. Needless to say, my girlfriend was upset, and cut things off. Feeling terribly guilty, I arrived in school the next day to find my ex crying. I talked to her for some time, and took her back, I felt as though I hadn't given the relationship a fair chance the first time around, and it had been completely unfair for her. We dated for several more months, and then went our separate ways. Since then I have been talking to the girl that I had been before. We talked frequently and things were going well. I even began to form a friendship with the Ex. Several weeks had passed, with frequent phone conversations between myself and this girl, and we hung out on a few occasions. But then one night I slept with my Ex, who I find that I still have some feelings for, and her for me. Now I don't know what to do. Part of me feels that I must tell this other girl about my Ex because she has feelings for me. The other part of me feels that I am single, and am within my right to associate with who I choose, although I need to make it clear to both girls, that I do not intend to rush into any form of relationship.

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  • Gidget

    be open and honest with everyone and if she is ok with it then it will be cool but she deserves to know about what u did

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  • xxxbeautifullybrokenxxx

    Ok if the ex finds out about the new girl she will be crushed! Whether she says it or not! And she will find out! I was the ex in this situation and literally the first day my bf met her and took her out I found out from people the next day!!! And We were still hooking up. Anyway it seems like relationship number 1 wasn't working out. I would say just tell them both that u don't want a relationship and u r just dating. Unfortunatley no one understands that concept! I see trouble and hurt feelings if u don't get this under control. The best advice i can give u is to pick one and don't go back on your decision! That's what my bf did he chose her then changed his mind n our relationship sucks now!

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