Need advice as im going insane

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well where do i begin.i feel like i am going mad i am a normal guy affectionate loving do lots of silly things for my wife.
Like buy her things try to surprise her with gifts she needs, tell her i love her every day.
Even 2 years ago when i found out she was chatting to some guy on a website and going on a cam with him watching him do things to himself while she watched and did things to herself i forgave her and tried to get over it.
God this is hard have tears in my eyes remembering this....
But all she ever seems to do is push me away no matter what i do it never seems to be enough.
I think to be honest if it wasn't for our 2 children i would walk away but the trouble is i still love her madly.
Its like she doesn't seem to care how much she hurts me by constantly pushing me away.
I have told her a few times how much it hurts and we talk and for a few weeks it gets better then she just goes back to her old ways.
Am i mad to continue to live like this.
Is it wrong to want to some to love you and show you some sort of affection.
As for the bedroom department she told me 3 years ago that she has decided that she no longer wants to do that kind of stuff anymore as she feels she doesn't need that in her life any more.
Even though she is only 35.
I have talked to her loads of times about how i feel its like she just doesn't care

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    As hard as it may be to accept, I think your marriage is doomed. You can hang on until it gets really ugly, or, for the sake of the kids, get on with the process of separating amicably.
    There is nothing you can do to make her love you again. Crying, showing how much you hurt and being a downer, certainly won't help.
    It's time to get out of this mess and find yourself another girl. You'll be happier, which will make you a better person for your kids to be around, and possibly make the ex a bit jealous, but don't count on that, though.
    It is time for you to think of your needs and how you'd like to live your life, and I'd venture it's not being a lap dog to this cold, unloving woman.

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  • Doktor_Hildred_Von_Steinmann
    9 years ago

    I would walk my good friend. That type of toxic relationship is only detrimental to your health. You have to think about you're own wellbeing as well sir.

    Good luck.

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  • MelancholySmile
    9 years ago

    Does she not realize what she has? A loving husband, a family, the whole package and she wants to just wave it off? I'm only 18 but even at my age I know a man of your type is hard to find these days. You have two logical options, stay and go through all of this or leave her and see if it's for the better. Such a shame a family is being torn apart.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Hire a good lawyer, my friend. I'm sorry, but she sounds like a heartless skank of a bitch.

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  • hmmmm987
    9 years ago

    Sounds like she takes you for granted and is with you just out of convenience.
    No sex in 3 years? NOT normal!

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