Need advice about a guy!!!

Ok so this guy I was talking to pretty seriously for about 2 months just decided to tell me the other day that he still needed to get over his ex that had cheated on him. We were supposed to hangout the day it all happened and then he said "we need to talk" and that's when it all started. He said what made him realize he needed space with me was the one day that I stayed the night at his house. He said I was the first person to since his ex. And he said he was uncomfortable with me staying but he was the one who wanted me to which doesn't make sense to me. I'm really sad about it because he said he wants space and he said we will see how things go in the future and stuff like that. And he also told me I wasn't a rebound or anything. So I'm wondering if there's anything I can do because we talked every single day all day and now it's just all taken away ): I already miss him a lot ): I even met his family and he met mine ): do you think I should give him his space for now and try in text him in like a month or something??

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  • Ellenna

    Yes to your very last question. And no, unfortunately you can't do anything to change how he feels, just give it time and see what happens

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  • flyingnostalgia

    He is just a drama queen, break up with him.

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    • bucho's_butt

      What does flying nostalgia mean anyhow?

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  • Vauael

    I think its best to just wait until he contacts you again. That is what I would do. If he wants to see you or talk, he will call. If he lost your number, he knows where you live. Dont play the waiting game with him. Im not even sure I would believe the excuse he gave. Not saying that he is lying but that is prob the most widely used excuse when someone wants out without hurting the other persons feelings.

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  • LittleGirlBashedAndSodomized

    He may be playing you wrong or not following his COCKs advice.

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    • whaadam

      how many accounts do you have with this sodom-crap?

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      • LittleGirlStrippedChokedRaped

        You wouldn't believe me if I told you...

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  • xxjosh2001xx

    Well in a guy and done similar things, to me sounds like he's hoping she will come back to him. If you really want to be with him then just be there for him as a friend. If he decides to let go of his ex finally then he will remember you were there for him. Make your feelings clear to him and just say, I really have feelings for you (assuming you do) and I'm here for you. Trust me if he wants to be with you he will be. Remember if you ever want something that lasts its gotta be mutual.

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  • rsassigirl

    I think you need one of those magic memory rocks for the girl who loves a dirtbag! Forget him!

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