Naturally sexist thoughts about sex?

I'm a girl and some of my natural reactions to sex are a bit archaic. I'm not a prude--I enjoy sex and I'm passionate. But I also have an aversion to anything that is directly and solely intended for female pleasure. It's not so much a thought as an automatic reaction. Anything like a having a guy go down on me or being on top seems wrong to me. I know it's stupid and old-fashioned, but I can't help feeling like there's something dirty about a woman being sexually dominant or being pleasured when it doesn't directly benefit the man. I know sex is about BOTH people, but I have this feeling that if it's not pleasing the man, then it's admitting to carnal desires, and it just feels like there's something dirty about that immediate, physical lust in a woman. I know it's not logical, but is it normal? Girls, ever felt like this?

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  • theabider

    I feel exactly the same way!!! I want to please my man, and really feel whorish when he suggests eating me out of having me ride him. I would only submit to such things if it really pleased him. I think this is how women are made to feel. Deep down inside most women are submissive. Embrace it girl, guys will love you for it.

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