Narcissist?

So, the thing is, I am quite obsessed with myself. I look at myself in the mirror at least one hour per day, if not more. I have a hard time understanding sometimes other people's feelings because most of the time, I'm caught up in what I am feeling. I have a hard time mantaining relationships, and making them. I can easily get girls (honestly) it's just that I can't keep those relationships because (for example) I never call them, I don't pay much attention to them, Im not all that jealous...I don't know...

Is this normal?

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27% Normal
Based on 89 votes (24 yes)
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Comments ( 12 )
  • maybe your a douchebag and you dont know it?

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  • Krenn

    You're common-ish.. unfortunatly >: /

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  • peterr

    Sad, you are.

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  • DiamondGirl

    Maybe your just a stupid moron. Who thinks he's good lookin but actually looks like Woody Allen. or the like.

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  • crion

    You know how in the book Catch-22 there's a scene in which an officer describes how people can never get out of flight duty due to insanity because filing for leave due to insanity is something only a sane person would do?

    Narcissism is like that. It's not just vanity, it's a form of very powerful self-deceit and immature coping mechanisms combined with a tremendous need for attention and sad, desperate insecurity. A person with NPD believes him or herself beyond reproach, but your willingness to consider your own faults contradicts that.

    Also: every woman in this hemisphere looks at herself in the mirror at least one hour per day. Some guys do it too, ain't nothin' wrong with that.

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  • cubinsc

    I thought you said once an hour. But a full hour? Definitely not normal. You may have narcissistic personality disorder.

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  • SyC0Pathik

    well for one thing staring into a mirror for an hour thats fucked and another thing you just gotta pay more attention to others you answered your own question

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  • smeagolxx

    i was like that, when i was younger, i could have stared at my reflection all day

    but as time passes, your golden looks will fade, your hair will recede, your face will lose its form

    you may still be better looking than your peers at that stage, but the mirror will no longer seduce you like it did in the past

    your priorities will shift, and this post of yours will be a distant memory of the way you used to be

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  • tetsco

    lolololol at flikr. i'd have to agree though. you'll get a reality check eventually

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  • Divadelamort

    Do you ever feel lonely? At some point aren't you going to want to have companionship? Its somewhat normal to be highly self involved esp. Depending on your age. I think you should evaluate your situation, and decide on if you are truely happy or if you want to have better interactions with others.

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  • geckopaws

    This is totally narcissistic of you yeah you could say that you are one. I mean I don't even look at myself in the mirror. But often people with eating disorders look at themselves in the mirror obsessing whether their too fat or not. So if you have any trouble in that area you might want to talk to a shrink. But I think you have a mental illness and I don't think its normal to stand in the mirror for an hour each day and think about yourself all day long.

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  • Stephen

    If I was a stud, I would probably do the same things. You've been givin a free ride in life and I would recommend looking out for number one, yourself. Only thing I believe anyone can ask of you is to treat others with respect, even if you don't care for them. It's just being a good human.

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