Mystery girl keeps appearing in my dreams.

I keep seeing this girl in my dream who also is supposedly always attracted to me as well. Sometimes she's my girlfriend. Others she appears out of nowhere to kiss me. Even though I can never get a really focused look at her I can tell it's her. She's never told me her name and doesn't really talk to me, she's just excited. She always appears when I'm alone. One particular occasion she did tell me when we were on a beach saying "I'm always here" while smiling. Sounds like a cliche romance scene but it happened. How could I not know who this girl is and strange part when I said reappearing, I mean it. Since I was 13 she appeared and she has been growing up with me. We are side by side with our ages. I'm 19 now and so is she. I swear I never met her and doesn't even look like anyone I know. Only thing similar I can recall is that she showed me her art and it's the same exact pictures I've drawn in my life already. What could it mean? It's bugging me like crazy.

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  • Frosties

    I think it means you are looking for the fulfillment of a committed relationship and if you don't have one in the real world, your psyche is exploring it while you sleep.

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    • Shackleford96

      I really like this comment.

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    • NeuroNeptunian

      I was about to say that maybe it is his fraternal twin sister from beyond the grave who died in-utero before they were born but I like your answer better.

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      • Frosties

        I'm not sure why people like it. It was just something I threw out there. It could just as easily be completely wrong.

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      • DannyKanes

        I like your reason better :)

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  • JoshFox94

    I'm having a similar thing but its only started very recently and I'm 21 which I feel is too old for this to happen to, but anyway, the first time I saw this girl, Lauren (weird that she has a name right?), we just stayed in bed and I just felt like I knew her so well, and I could see her face so clearly, but when I try and picture it now it's blurred. Dreamt about her twice since and in one of the dreams she even got pissed off at me for talking to another girl. Feel like I'm losing my shit, I even feel like i miss her when I wake up.

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  • calebturbitt123

    I have the same dream im 14 boy there is this girl popping up in my dream she has blonde hair blue eyes we have almost every thing in common she likes the cold loves games like skyrim likes huskys she has a great sense of humor and she has a gaming channel and so do i she loves pikachu. when i see here in my dreams i can see her clearly its so clear she might be real? nobody knows there destiny they just have to find it.

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    • Caroxdxdxdxdxdxdxdxd

      Have you dreamed of her again? Dude I've been dreaming of a girl with blonde hair and blue eyes. She's tall and has the nicest smile ever. She smells like straeberrys. Perfect in every way. Did she tell you her name? I'm also fourteen but throughout my life I've had dreams about her.

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      • P1N3_Apple

        I swear me too! She's always blonde, idk about blue eyes though. I always find her around randomly, as if she was always there and she always ends up wrapped around my arm. We end up as a couple. The girls' faces are never the same but their characteristics are! Always a blonde... and the setting? The setting is always at some form of the apocalypse, be it with the Blood Moon or a wasteland, both of which are dreams I've experienced with this beautiful girl. I feel like something is trying to tell me something...

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  • Ralph17

    I hope you guys have the time to read mine. I just turned 18 this year and I'm still a virgin. I'm not ashamed about it and I never had a girlfriend before. I play acoustic guitar and I can get any girl if I wanted to, but these Dreams I keep getting is kinda making me feel eccentric. The Dream is about a girl that I've never seen before in my life, but for some reason she feels soo comfortable around me. As it keeps going, I'm at her house. As I'm there her Family hated her for some reason. They dislike her and didn't give her any attention. I felt disdain in my heart that I felt weak. She took me up to her room and I couldn't see her like that. For some reason, the girl I was with made me fall in love with her. No explanation whatsoever, but I felt I had a connection with her. I felt so much love with her that I proposed her in marriage. Then my heart felt like a Soft White Feather tickling the heart I was carrying. It made me feel happy that in an odd gut feeling, I've found her. The love of my life. I was in her bed with her. I never felt happy in my life, but for some reason I started waking up and I hugged her and never let her go. I started to feel like I wanted to cry. When I woke up, the depression kicked in and I wanted to see her again. Everything that happened was last night when I slept. I'm confused and I need anyone's opinion of it.

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    • John316l

      Your fine my friend , you are not alone !!
      No shame at being a virgin , don’t listen to what others say they are , most people your age and older are only lying about not being a virgin !!
      At least your honest and a kind caring soul by what I’ve read so far .
      I am a bit older than you and I’m not at all ashamed to say I was a virgin till I was 21 years old , and not because I had no offers like yourself , but because I was searching for someone special to share it with .
      I alike yourself have had these dreams for many years and I know how you must feel , especially when you awake !
      It’s like you’ve lost a loved one that you’ve never physically met !
      Not many will understand you or can ,
      You are a person waiting for the right love, maybe now you’ve met someone not sure how old this thread is ?
      Not important, you will probably find as you get older these dreams will change but as I’ve experienced them too and still do , I believe we are 1 part of 2 beings , separated at conseception into this world , we are always looking for this kind of In breakable love that this person gives us , they im sure are in this physical world too , and maybe having the same dream at the same time , it blows your mind to try and think of it I know , one day my friend you will be together with your ultimate love , but until that day , you must try and just live your life and experience all the great things you can , you will meet someone one day who you will fall head over heals in love with , maybe you already have , this is a part of who you are and it’s showing you the kind of love that you should strive for in this life , until the day you will finally be together with your other half , I hope this makes sense , it’s hard to put in words what I’m saying
      If you need help I’m here for you

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  • NathanPE2003

    Same. When I was 10 my dreams always had a girl in them but since 2 months later after my 11th birthday I'm dreaming about another girl. On the 24th I saw the girl again and at the end of my dream we huddled together and fell asleep. I was sleeping while I was sleeping.

    This was when I was dreaming.

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  • MegaMan44

    It's crazy that i have dreams like that too, In my dreams I go on Adventures with this girl and end up rescuing her alot of times but then ill have dreams when I just snuggle with her or hangout n hug her never anything sexual, I used to dream of her when i was younger and now again but more vivid. I've never heard her name in the dream, nore have i met/seen her in Real life, she rarely ever talks in my dreams and if she does i fail to remember what she says when i wake up, when im dreaming i see her clear as day its crazy! im too questioning these dreams and what they mean... i just hope i can find the Correct answer cause if this is my quote "Soul Mate" i'd love to freaking know haha, and if not i would love to freaking know what it means.

    Wish you the best, Tristan

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  • BobbyCaverns

    there is no date associated with your comment so it is impossible to determine if this is a recent post or something you will benefit from. your question sounds sincere, so i will take the time to respond. i will not go into my qualifications other than to say i have been there...a long, long time ago. There is no definite answer to your question other than, you will know by experience.

    the first thing you need to understand is that in your mother's womb you started out as female. male hormones are produced by your mother as you grow (special note: your strength came from a woman so never use it against a woman).

    therefore you are a human being created both male and female. embrace the woman of your dreams as though she is you, or your sister or whatever closest intimate view you can have of her. this is an indication that you long for wholeness of being, whether that is physical or soulical or spiritual does not mater at this stage of your growth. simply pursue her as though she is the most real thing in your life.

    if she exists on the planet, you will be drawn to her by embracing her in your mind and heart. never attempt to own nor possess her, and let your life unfold. be excited, be strong, embrace with vigor every challenge life brings to you. you have inward strength to carry you. be courageous and never afraid of anything.

    this response is to your question alone. it will take time, study and thought to grasp what i have written. disregard all surface advice you receive and go deep.

    all the best to you my friend.

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  • sassy8438

    This is going to sound crazy but I'm a girl 19 now and I don't know when it started but there's been a boy sometimes I dated sometimes he'd just be there and I remember kissing him. There was one where I was in this room that had half walls and I was showing him some pictured of drawings then we sat down on this bench and just cuddled. I swear to God I'm not making this up.

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    • iWillAskTheQuestionsHere

      Holy crap.... are you serious? Whoa....I don't even know what to say, my mind is being blown. whoa

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      • sassy8438

        I am serious...It's kind of wierd and I'm too at a loss of words.

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        • iWillAskTheQuestionsHere

          After discovering this site I just thought I'd share this ongoing dream of mine. I never expected to come across a person to have such similar dreams. This honestly is freakin crazy....I don't know what to say.

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          • sassy8438

            I never thought I could come across some one asking it but reading what you wrote it was just so strangely familiar I had to say something. It's crazy...what are the odds?!

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  • quaid

    its not a mystery its me

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  • nice

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  • TerryVie

    OMG!

    you just blew my mind.

    I had those kinds of dreams. I kind of forgot about them, since they "stopped" for me quite a while ago...but i had such dreams.
    thank you a lot for making me remember! i mean it.

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  • Getagriptit

    I'm having similar dreams, i just recently split from a long term girlfriend of 3 years and have been suffering alot of stress which in turn caused me sleeping problems. I went to a doctor and was prescribed lorazepam to aid me, since taking this i have been dreaming about this girl who i have never seen in my life, sometimes she is obscured, sometimes i can see her face... But all i know is when she is there i feel like she is supposed to be there, she's comforting and its like i have known her all my life. Theres never anything sexual happens, she's just there, its really strange... When i wake up i even miss her, i dunno i can't describe it, i hope what people say is true and that one day you will meet the person of your dreams, because i would recognise her anywhere.

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  • Damn it! I never dream of girls :(

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  • Anime7

    I've had several of these dreams before. From what I've looked up a girl in your dream represents your innocent and childlike nature. However, from the way you've described I think Frosties is right on the money. You want a real relationship and can't find one in the world thus your subconscious creates a life where you have what you want. Dreams are a powerful thing.

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  • Avant-Garde

    They say that the people we dream about are real. I've been dreaming about people I've never met for years. One day, you might find her. Good luck:)

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    • Disbie

      My advice is to enjoy the dreams and how they make you feel. I am 58 years old and have been dreaming of a girl I have never met, the same girl in every time, since I was 22. Each dream of her is vivid and I wake up half believing it was real, but of course it never is. It may be weeks or months now between dreams. She is the same as she was when I was 22 while I am getting to be an old man. I don't know what it all means but I hope they never stop.
      I've been married for almost 30 years to a beautiful woman that I love very much and have three wonderful children. This is the first time I've ever mentioned the dreams to anyone. I wonder what it all means.

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  • MRmr

    fuck the police

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    • Abethebabe

      I'm so dead😂😂😂😂

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  • RabbitPaws125

    These dreams started when I was 11. I dreamed of this Blonde boy. At first started when I was in an empty hallway, I went to sit down by some stairs, and he sat on the other side of the stairs. He said something comforting and then we appeared younger and in my room. We were sitting on my bed, and he said. "I am a Dream Walker, I can take you to Fire." Fire is my online friend, and sadly we have tried dream walking, and have started to see each other in dreams. But I refused his offer, and got up and left. When I returned he was gone. But he was first spotted by my friend, Fire. Then he started to appear in my dreams. Over and over, until I said stop appearing before I went to sleep. And he stopped. But everytime I saw him, I was comforted, and knew I was safe. Either he was in the background watching over, or he was with me, having fun and goofing around. I had no idea of his name, but I knew his face shape, blonde hair in a certain style I remember, and brown eyes. He was a little bit taller than me. I remember everything about him. One time, he helped me escape from something scary in my dream, another time, he ran at me with a baseball bat, but didn't hurt me. It was if he was playing around with me. But ever since I said stop appearing, I haven't seen him since.

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  • tpleather

    I've dreamt about the same woman since I was a kid, I know her name is Joanne Brady she lives in Ireland, she's seems to give me advice but sometimes I seem to be in one random dream then it feels like I'm in her dream? I've tried searching for her buy I see her face clearly in my dream I wake up not knowing what she fully looks like.. this woman's advice has saved my life! One day I hope to meet her..

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  • Jevix1997

    I don't know how old this is if you'll even see this but the same thing has happened to me. I remember the guys face and I was wondering if it was you. I am desperate to find this guy. If you even see this my email is [email protected] or Jevix McKinney on Fb. I hope you are the one.

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  • chillbabe

    I don't know how old this post is, but i've had this same experience.
    there's a man that shows up in my dreams a lot, and has for years.

    recently, my mother went to a psychic who described this man exactly to her and
    told her he would be coming into my father's life to grow his business.

    My mom doesn't know anything about these dreams.
    I'm still waiting to see if the psychic is right.

    anyways. I thought it was worth sharing.

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  • Saffron21

    This reminds me of aeon,
    A girl who appears in people's dreams to leads others to life events. She can appear when ever and probley doesn't hang around the dream for long. She's probley always talking as well.

    See when life was created it was hope, fate and destiny that creates it.

    Fate- gives you a start and a end
    Destiny- gives the user the power to alter between the two line
    Hope- to bring a ideal of creation of fate.

    Aeon is a form of time, but in dream wise she appears to people who require the help they need. Little you know it afterwards you probley feel confused but better in the outcome. Firmly time stands as it is but when she's around it tends to go quicker. It's sort of a guardian of your own.

    If you ever see her again tell her saffron says hi and that's he's waiting :)

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  • It might be a succubus.

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  • dreamwalker090

    I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE! But the only difference is.. I MET HIM IN REAL LIFE.

    Here's my story.
    It all started when I was about 6 years old, I remember until now very clearly how I met this boy about my age in my dream. He saved me from a dog that was chasing me. We became friends and then I woke up and the first thing on my mind was "J". So I named him J. Every not-less-than-4 months I'll dream of him and ofcourse, He grew up with me. We were so into adventure that we created a hidden door on their old house (Leading to a hidden room where we can play) A month before my elementary graduation I dreamt about us going to a park, My hair was braided like it's always been, and I'm also wearing my glasses that time. He bought me an ice cream but when I reached for it, my dream went blank, but it returned to the scene but he was gone; his ice cream was dropped on the ground. That was my last dream about him. After that last dream I started looking for every "J" on our school. Eventually I had a crush on this guy who can sing and compose songs (yeah cliché) his name was Lui. I feel like my life is a cliché because girls on our school really likes him (they created a fans club) and he always perform on our school events, like literally a heartthrob. He was popular, and I am the ugliest on our campus. I have a crush on him since I was freshman highschool (11 bc I studied younger than others) until now that we're in college. I still searched for "J" until a friend of me asked about dreams and shits. So I told her all about it, and then changed the topic into Lui. She was like "What's his full name" and I said "Lui **** Joshua ******" And then I realized that Lui have a "J" on his name but he was never on my list. Me and my friend was so surprised that we started crying. A week after that I asked Lui about his dreams if he has ever experienced weird dreams. He said "I grew up with a girl on my dream. Can you imagine! It's weird" On my mind I'm like HOLYSHIT. And he continued story telling about his most memorable dream of her. The girl in her dreams was wearing pink glasses and braided hair. I really did start crying because of happiness and ofcourse I was weirded out at the same time. I didn't tell him I'm the girl but atleast for now, we became much closer friends. I'm 16 now and he's 17. And ps. We never met before my first dream of him because he lives 30 minutes away from my house, I dont go outside and we also didnt go to the same school except high school.
    We also dont go to senior high if you're wondering why I'm already in college.

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  • WanderingStar

    What did she look like?

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  • Sgt_Doom

    It seems to be that I meet this beautiful girl at a place where I am comfortable, like my room, the beach and her house. Though, the house seems familiar but unknown. She's not overly hot or overkill sexy, but, she just has those looks where you think you've layed eyes on the most beautiful girl you've seen. She has strong coloured natural red hair and she has green eyes. Basically that's all I've really noticed because she is wonderful to look at. We always end up in a private room doing whatever we want. We just sit there, she doesn't say much, but we are very connected and we always cuddle and kiss. A few times I've gone skinny dipping with her and slept naked with her and sometimes we've gotten up to sex. After our day (in the dream) as soon as I sleep in the dream, it ends. Sometimes I wake up upset after those dreams. I really hope I can meet someone like that one day. Because I long for a girl that is my equal and my soul mate who I can treasure every moment with her.

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  • hotshot599152

    I my self have the same issue i see this woman in all of my dreams two most recent ones was i was in a college campus when a zombie appocolypse started and i was sent out to get pizza for the ones who survived and as i was ttying to carry the pizza back i noticed she was right beside me not helping me but it felt like she made me stronger and not afraid and i felt the need to protect her....another time was i appear on a cliff and i see a tree and a tire swing and when i near it she is sitting on the swing nude and when i go near i see she is brunette and nude sometimes we kiss and stuff and sometimes we dont but everytime after i look at her smile and walk to the end of the cliff and just jump off and start flying for miles and i see her smile fade in the distance i just want to know who she is.

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  • NathanPE2003

    Also my friend also had a dream like this but with a girl he knows.... from a game.

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  • jermath35

    This post is really cool... I hope the two that had similar stories meet up...???

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  • theripster92

    We are not able to create things in our dreams, everything in our dreams, we have seen, either irl or in a movie, so you must've seen her somewhere once, wether concious or not, maybe a face in a crowd of 100's

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